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How do you handle that......our life 2gether is based upon whether or not she wants 2 take him back....which she wasn't the one who wanted the divorce....I know I should just say screw him, but it's so hard because I love him. I'm not surprised at his actions because all of the things he was doing should have prepared me for this i.e. visiting sk @ her house, taking her non driving a#$ where she needs 2 go. I just feel so used, so dumb...I just feel like our whole relationship was a joke. Please help.
So, In the last two days, I have officially lost every ounce of my cool, and I think, possibly my respect for STBH.
As some will remember, STBH agreed (against my warnings) to enter into a "mediation" towards reaching a settlement about custody and the finances.
On several occasions he and I agreed that the bottom line was to be that he would not walk out of there without 2 things in agreement:
1) shared custody both legal and residential
2) the passport
so I had one done recently. i truly believe this psychic, i've seen her before. this was my 2nd time around. she said that bm hates my guts and is very jealous of me. so no sense in trying to be friends with her, no matter what i do it won't matter. this answers my question as to why she is not nice and has a fake act when she sees me. all nice in person but nasty behind my back. it was a relieve to hear that, i knew it all along but just had to hear it from a well trusted source.
You all have dealt with a BM is non-compromising, invades your life, has her own rules and thinks the world revolves around BM and DH. From what I see on this site - the majority of DH enable the EW to treat them they way they do. The DH has behavior patterns that are pre-established with the EW - communciation methods, frequency, white lies they tell to avoid conflict, being procrastinators and non-responsive until issues escalate. How do you get a DH to not procrastinate but also not communicate with EW for every single little thing.
Someone tell me if this is crazy...I was just looking at pics from my wedding in which we invited bm and for the first time I realized she wore a white dress it appears to be off white but still thats kinda weird...its not really a big deal I mean it was over a year ago...just wanted to know if anyone else thinks its f'd up...
So Ms. Perfect hasn't been bothered to take SS to a baseball game since that whole bit the other week. Okay, fine, she signs him up for stuff and can't be bothered to take him, much less support him. Whatever.
So Mic got a new job and will be working on Saturday, which is also SS's last ball game of the season. Now the responsibility falls on me.
O kay so yesterday Dh and I had to go meet with a detective and the social service guy in the court house to get Dh's side of the story. Long story short the detective noticed that Dh and ss story do not match. SS was caught in a lie three times he could not remember what he told one person to the next. SS told three different stories he told social services that it was on his leg, he told dectective it was on his neck (collar would not fit my dog weights 10 pounds so she has a very small neck). Then he told a secretary in that office that it was a joke his daddy did nothing wrong.
Can someone answer this question - DH fiance of 2 years - constantly lies to me - or shall i say tells "white lies" - gives some of the information but not all - when it comes to communication and obligations he has agreed to with his EW. I dont get it - relationships are supposed to be built on trust and honesty. Everything else about of lives is great except the EW. She constantly calls him at work, on teh cell phone (which I pay for). Very rarely calls the house unless SS is here - then she calls the SS 5-10 times per day.
When my skids aren't here, I miss them. I look at their little rooms, and their little clothes sitting folded in the laundry basket, and it makes my heart hurt. My SD7's little stuffed animals and SS9's video games. The dog misses them. Their seats in the car are empty, their little crumbs still sprinkled everywhere. SD's drawings up on the "kid board" in the kitchen. Everything is quieter, less vibrant.
I know my DH feels this 1000 times stronger than I, and my feeling is pretty intense. Poor, poor DH. If I were him, I couldn't bear it.
Dh and his EX used to share the same Doctor. Once the marriage ended she decided to get another. His DR knows all about the affair she had and his emotional crap he went through. When I met hubby and moved to his city I startd going to the same office (different Doctor). Our son goes there and our soon to be daugther will go there.
Well, the Ex wants to return there. There are a million other doctors (we live a fairly big city)and she wants to go to this doctor's office and she wants to go to my doctor.
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