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Well this was our first week of the summer with all 3 kids (BS6 and 10 SD6) We picked SD up on Friday and then took them all to Idilewild park and Storybook Forest on Sat with the in laws and had a great time.
From EW BM to DH....what do you think of this? I have no idea what to do. The only thing that prompted this email were DF sending her an email suggesting an alternative co-parenting program offered by his health plan for $100 vs the program she wants to go to which is $175 per hour every week for 12 plus sessions. We pay over $980 per month for one child with 50% custody and $1800 per month spousal support. Who has what money? Definately not us.
This evening when we got home, there was a card stuck in our door. It was from Child Protective Services, and had a note on the back to please call them on their cell. I wonder what this is all about? Do you think BM sent CPS out to our home? We called and left the agent a message but she hasn't called back yet.
First --- I'm soooooo happy to find this site! It's good to know that I'm not the only one dealing with a psycho from some other world. I've been reading through many of your entries (all so good, BTW). Is there somewhere on this site the describes all the abbreviations that are being used (DH, SD, BF (boyfriend?), etc). That would be so helpful in reading/writing.
Again, so happy to find you all!!!
T.
ok, so let's say the judge says 'dh, you HAVE to attend counseling with bb.' has anyone found this to be successful? after YEARS of bickering and lying?? i'm just trying to comprehend how three or four sessions with a counselor are going to clear up all the resentment, hatred, jealousy, etc., from bb, enough to ensure a healthy, open relationship for the next 8 years (til sd is 18). if the judge is going to say 'no your wife can't communicate with bb, you have to, dh.' what can we do to eliminate the drama???? at least when i am talking to her, i don't get emotionally involved...
It's really hard to deal with that fact... The fact that this ex still has to communicate w/my husband about their child together. I can't stand the exwife & everytime she needs to talk to my husband or email him I get all irritated inside.... How do you all do it day after day?
quick update: i got back from vacation to find we have to go to court 7/9. bb has complained that dh won't talk to her and that she has to talk to me. boo hoo. she has also asked that dh remain 'consistent' with visitation (although she is the one witholding sd), and from now on wants supervised or plain terminated visitations. sure, makes sense....in crazy world. so...she has called me but i haven't spoken with her. i didn't want to waste my breath, but now i'm curious. why does it matter who she talks to? why does she say one thing and do exactly the opposite?
Thank you so much. I know I will find the suport I need here. The next few weeks are bound to be crazy. Wacko is being quiet now, but things are sure to explode. This woman is nuts.
For example, when my boyfriend and I started dating, Wacko found out he was seeing someone, started talking to people (we live in a small town) and found out who my ex-boyfriend was. She then went to where he worked to ask him how he felt about us dating.......
Tell me that's not crazy........
My husbands Ex was 16 when she got pregnant he was 18 she forced him to get married it only lasted 3 months on an off. Their doughter is 8 know but his ex still acts like a 16 year old... All she wants is My hubbys $$$ he doesnt get to see his doughter every week unless the Witch says ok with the condition the he buys shoes, clothes or something she get a big child support check and still wants more. We have one doughter of our own and another baby on the way, and she had the nerve to call my husband and tell him to not have any more kids!!!
BF & I are speechless. And this started in the year 2000. Two days ago BF got a notice from the IRS saying that he owes $ 8,500 from 2003 & 15,000 from 2000. WTF??????????????????
Turns out, F#cken Darkness thought she could get a better tax refund without including her 'Husband's' income.
Yes, the bitch told him she handled the tax 'stuff' and never filed HIS. This was so far before we ever even met.
I could puke if I knew how.