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Okay, so today was SS4's open house at his school. A new company bought the place and they are implementing a new curriculum. Anyway, BB is supposed to give us information about school, but we've given up on that - I just ask whenever we pick him up if anything new has gone out. Anyway, she never told us about the open house. So, DH and I take separate cars because of the day's schedules, and as he is pulling in BB is pulling out. He waves, and she starts to waive and then gives him this "what the F are you doing here" look. He said he about fell out laughing. Just had to share.
As you know I'm not in good terms w/biomom. I am thinking of not accepting any gifts from her. Not gifts to me of course but for my daughter and if any for the new baby coming up. How would you handle this? Should I return the gift, throw it away, donation?
Ok, so these past few days have been even worse. My SS has found a better way to push my buttons. I ask him nicely to stop doing something and now all he does is laugh! Then following the response is NO! I had him at my work today because my boss is kind enough to have a kids room for the summer. Trying to save money I volunteered to have him come up there and play with the other kids. I asked him to stay in there and play and all he did was run a muck! So I got fed up with him and called the babysitter.
because we haven't even gotten to see sd for three weeks now, so nothing to bitch about...i know that sounds strange but we miss sd!!! and if i have to put up with crazy bb drama in order to even see my sd, then so be it. i've been logging on here day after day with nothing to say. this coming weekend is our visitation so we'll see if bb even shows up. dh hasn't spoken with sd since last week and that was for three minutes! i did print off some phone records though, so when our court date comes, we can have some sort of proof. it's just so sad. and i still haven't called bb. should i?
Ok. SD17 moved in with us back in January. She lived in a very UNstable household with her BM and Step dad. Step dad has "explosive disorder" and lives off of the system and Bio Mom is bi-polar and lives off of the system. SD is 17 and when she moved in with us, she didn't even know what a W2 was. Well, the beginning of March, she went to visit her mom, and never came home. She called on Sunday and said that she was sick and didn't think she could make the drive home (it's 1 1/2 hr. drive).
SS was exposed to my workplace this weekend (which he has been in the past) but this time word got around to BM that SS had spent some time with my boss. Now she's treatening to report my boss to every board that she can think of related to his field, try to get his license revoked, sue him, sue the company, blah blah blah.
Has anyone had the experience of being taken back to court to pay for extras. You know, summer school, dr bills, summer camp, etc. The half that BF is suppose to share with BM. I was just wondering if anyone has been taken to court for their half of the extras. My Bf's ex is even trying to get clothing expenses, claiming school uniforms are extra. I consider that same as clothing/food, etc that CS covers. BM sets the kids up in every kind of camp there is, summer school at the cost of $750 (even though they go to private schools), all without running any of this by my BF.
Recently my neighbors were telling me about there child custody case...they apparently were able to get online (google case net + state) and you can look up cases on anyone or at least in our state (MO) anyway my neighbor put in names of BM and kids and discovered BM had given guardian ship of kids to a friend without telling BF she apparently had a drug charge against her and if she didn't do something kids would have gone to DFS...BM apparently told judge that BF was not involved in kids lives and judge granted guardian ship to BM friends..anyhow my neighbors are now in the process of get
SD has had our cell phone since she moved out because she can't afford to have a land line put in. It has been a bit inconvenient for us since we use that for long distance calls (they are free), but she needed a phone. Before you ask - no, she hasn't gone over the minutes we have so it hasn't been more expensive for us. The original plan was that she would keep it until she got her financial aid money, then she would pay the extra fee and we would add another phone to our current service. If she went over our allotted minutes, she would pay those extra costs, too.
Today when I got home from work, BF told me about this message that BM had left on the answering machine. He heard the words "Hey hun -" and clicked off the message before listening to the rest of it. He said he didn't want to hear whatever she had to say if she was preceeding it with "Hey hun"!
So I listened to the message. All she said was, "Hey hun, I'm trying to get a hold of SS. Have him call me." I looked at BF and asked him basically WTF? He said she's trying to get back together with him and this is part of how she's showing him that.
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