Our newest latest greatest trauma-drama is Toxic Troll has been telling DH that their child needs to have phychiatric help. Yes, she does, Toxic Troll, because she was raised by you, and has become JUST like YOU.
And what might be driving her over the edge, is that she is realizing this fact.
I dont care what happens to her anymore. I dont care what she needs. Its not my broken thing to fix.
Its been ongoing arguing between mother and daughter, since Toxic Feral Eldest SD20 moved in to her mothers house in November 2018. Even when its ok, she still does damage, and still has the same crappy attitude, according to Munchkin SD12.
So, Toxic Troll and her mini me, Feral Eldest, got into it again today.
They fight, they break up, they make up. Its very cyclical.
And just last night things seemed peachy. They went to Mc Dnoalds together, Toxic Troll had a "shaking car problem" and immediately texts DH at 10pm, while we were in bed. He ignores.
This am, he texts me that the two are getting into it BIG TIME. Name calling. And that he heard about it from munchkin. I chuckled and then asked him "oh, what effing crazy b!tch drunk whore? What names lol?"
Well, this weekend was supposed to be split between Us, on Saturday, and Toxic Troll BM on Sunday.
Except for one thing.
Toxic Troll has a new "Dude" (knife boy see previous). She ALWAYS does this. Everytime. Spaced on the scheduled days, and was 2.5 hours away when DH called and asked "wtf, where are you its your day".
Well, I opted for #1. Thanks to everyone for the kindness, support and advice. As someone who has lost a sibling to suicide, I couldnt "unsee" the post. As my husband's wife, I felt an obligation to mention it, without drama infusing the conversation, just a brief description.
His reaction was...nothing. He just looked at me and shook his head a little, and said he didnt want to hear about anything to do with her or her life. We did mention that she has said this before during fights.
Recap: Toxic Feral Eldest is a miserable human being. She has said in the past "I should just kill myself" and it seemed like a way to guilt trip her parents, and now she is no contact with myself and DH, but lives with BM, Toxic Troll. She has falsley accused multiple people of multiple things.
So, long weekend came and went. Non-stop rain and then record levels of snow - people were getting stuck and told "go home!!!". So we stayed hme and went out a few times, but mostly stayed in and out of the weather.
All over social media and on almost every street corner festooned with flowers - there are random proclimations of "love".
This isnt a rant or a problem - this post o mine - merely an interesting occurence with SD Munchkin 12.
So, Munchkin came in the house last night after school with DH, and she didnt say hello, or anything. Just sat in the rocking chair on her phone or tablet drawing. I knew something was wrong, but thought maybe shes just tired. I left her alone, to decompress from the day.
Im a little flored, but probably I already know the answer to this: STAY THE HECK OUT OF IT
So, Munchkin SD12 is a really really good artist. Shes got a lot of different ideas on what she wants to create and loves watercoloring, pencils and all that. Her latest thing was she wanted an ipad drawing pad, to do digital drawings and cartoons and comics, to print and publish online. She researched it and found out it costs almost $2,000 bucks.