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I can't take it anymore. I'm tired of feeling alone in my own marriage and I'm sick of being the only one in this relationship that is trying to make changes and work on this marriage.
I'm also tired of SS and his his constant disrepect and the damn BM that is a total nut job and never thinks about her children and only herself.
I'm so stressed I'm making myself sick, haven't been able to do anything for myself and I'm tired of it... I want my life back and the person I was before DH. It's time I started thinking for me and me only.
This is my first time on here and I thought I could use the advice. My husband has a 11yr old son which we have every other weekend visitations with. His BM has always hated me and I mean HATE'S me.(We have been married less than a year) My SS knows that she feels this way towards me and has even made the rule to him he is not allowed to say my name. When he is around me he is always clinging to me and wanting me to do this or that with him and I do. He has always felt uncomfortable at his school functions when BM and my husband and I are all together.
Hi, I'm new here and I have a question which me and my husband can't answer. What are my rights as a stepmom? As far as I know, I don't have any rights regarding my two stepsons who live in my husbands and my house from sunday night until friday night. I am the main caregiver of the boys - will say that I am the one that parents them, takes care of their school stuff, takes care of their appointments with doctors and dentists and whatever else comes up. I actually do everything what their bio parents are supposed to do.
Hi. I just joined today and have never done this before so apologize if I get any of the abbreviations wrong. Gosh- I am recently remarried to a wonderful man with a not wonderful ex. She was completely distraught about their divorce even though during their marriage she was cruel to him (why he left). Since I've come into the picture (together for 2 years) it's been nasty with her. I'm the enemy. Were damaging the kids. Blah blah blah. All my other friends are still married happily in their 1st marriages so I have felt so alone and like I've happened upon this unique crazy situation.
This isn't a blog to vent about the crazy things a BM is doing or how much my DH is driving me crazy, it is about needing some advice for a hurting 3 y/o little girl. My SD is hurting very badly right now. The schedule that my hubby and BM have worked out is we have SD 4 nights a week and she has her 3 nights a week. For some reason BM has been calling us in the middle of the week to see if we can pick up SD a day earlier meaning SD only has 2 nights a week with her mom. BM works during the day so SD is only getting to see her mom a few hours a night.
well last week we took a pretty big blow from the courts which left us angry and feeling some what hopless.
but i did a lot of research yesterday and have potentionally found a way around the games bm is pulling and how to get sd to be allowed to have her say which will benefit our arguement.
we do need the help of sds school as they can provide evidence of the bms blantent lies. we are currenetly waiting on the legal aid to approve our application for a lawyer so we are doing it on our won currently but hopefully not for to much longer.
MY BF'S EX WIFE GETS ON MY F#CKING NERVES...SHE INTERFERS WITH THINGS THAT GOES ON IN MY HOUSE AND GET THIS SHE MOVED DOWN THE STREET FROM ON US ON PURPOSE!!!SHE TOLD HIM SHE THOUGHT THEY COULD WORK THINGS OUT!!!! AFTER THE DIVORCE!!! WHAT A BITCH!!!! ALL THE KIDS BUT ONE GET THAT IM IN THE PICTURE NOW!!!! IM NOT BEING A BITCH BUT ITS BEEN 4 YEARS NOW!!!! SHE MAKES HER KIDS FEEL SORRY FOR HER AND THATS WHY ITS HARD FOR THEM TO FORM A RELATIONSHIP WITH ME
bf has been calling me all day crying begging me not to go. he just sent an email saying that his 'needs' were unrealistic and that he proposes the following:
OK, My DH has a SD who is 29 from his last marriage. Two weeks ago she acussed "me" or us of not treating her equal. TRUST ME when I say we do. She said many other hurtful things that got me "worked up". My DH thinks I should stand up to her and speak my mind (passing the buck) and I think he should stand up for me and tell her what WE think of the situation. I think he is just afraid of hurting her feeling. Regardless that my feelings have been hurt. What do YOU think?
I've been reading a lot of posts & it seems that there are a lot of angry ex's that many here are dealing with. I have to admit, I have been the angry ex.
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