This is my first time on here and I thought I could use the advice. My husband has a 11yr old son which we have every other weekend visitations with. His BM has always hated me and I mean HATE'S me.(We have been married less than a year) My SS knows that she feels this way towards me and has even made the rule to him he is not allowed to say my name. When he is around me he is always clinging to me and wanting me to do this or that with him and I do. He has always felt uncomfortable at his school functions when BM and my husband and I are all together.