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HB and I went to see the lawyer today about child support and full custody. Lawyer said it's an open and shut case. AWESOME!!!!! You guys don't know how great this is. It's been a long 3 years. BM is going to be served at her place of work. OOOOPS! How embarassing. Serves her right for all the crap she's put my HB and my SKids through. You know what the funny thing is...She never saw this coming. BM thought just cause she ALLOWED the kids to live with us, she had no responsibility for them, and HB would not persue it. How dumb! So tonight I'm dancing a jig.
As I write, my DH is in counseling with his ex and their two kids. The daughter wants a modification to sever her responsibilities for visitation with her dad, and his son, is so mixed up, he's afraid to do anything without his sisters approval. I feel so responsible.
well as most of you know today was the hearing for shared care...
well as it turns out the courts will not change current orders unless there is a major concern for the wellfare of the child...
if you want amendments done you need to come to an agreement with the other party and do it via consent minutes of order.
the likelyhood of that friggin cow agreeing to us being in sd-6 life is slim to never figgin gonna happen....
Seems like now my fiance is putting more obvious priority on me since his son is acting up.
This is probably going to start even more attitude. I am thinking he is not a regular teen... he never goes outside, has no friends really except some chat IM people who in reality could be anyone... and he doesn't act like a normal boy his age.
Even his father thinks that... maybe he just has a weird personality? Gay?? Misunderstood?
There are two types of priceless people and they are: the one who will comfort us, give us support and love us unconditionally and be a friend. and then there is the other one, who will test us, push us to our breaking point, make us muster courage that we never thought we had, these people make us stronger.
(quote from the tv series: "Dawsons Creek")
so to all of you step parents who think they have had enough with the BM and Skids, remember that these people play just as important role in your life as your loved ones!
I do not know if any of you watched the Oprah show a few days ago, I did not but a friend of mine watched and told me that the show had to do with step parents and step children and the advice is that SM are to act as if they are the child's Aunt. Not to play a 2nd mom but be an aunt, what do you all think?
So I woke up this morning and SS had already left the house 1/2 and hr before he had to catch the bus (he was over at his friends house who he catches the bus with) so I was up with bio-son eating breakfast and I saw SS walking by the house on the way to the bus stop,(He is going over to BM after school today) now it is pouring down rain and there is a storm SS was wearing a hooded sweatshirt and no jacket.
I seriously think that on top of having a step parent site I need a place for my MIL blog.....grrr!! My DH is an only child, his parents got divorced when he was 4 and his mom remarried a man with three kids. (Making her a step mom). DH grew up with his step brother, but his step sisters treated him like crap. Probably b/c my MIL treated him like a baby, (and still does).
Everytime we on the exchange day when we go get SS from BM,SS throws a fit crying and screaming.It's like he hates coming home with us.But after were home he is fine and happy with us.I don't understand why SS is with us 60% of the time.We are not strict we have rules unlike at BMs house.My question is will SS fits stop ever?we have been doing the exchange for a 1year now,i thought he would be use to the routine.Anyone ealse have this problem and could give me some advice about it?
so my talk with bf last night did not go so well. he started the conversation by telling me that he lied about a couple of things and that most importantly the phone incident the other night turned into a huge disaster. he tells me that bm heard me telling him 'to get off the phone, tell her we're having dinner' (this is right before i unplugged the phone because i was tired of him yelling at her). so apparently she said 'tell her to f***k off, i can talk to you whenever i want to.'
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