well as most of you know last friday was the court hearing for shared care and we didn't get the news we were hoping for an now seem to be faced with an up hill battle with bm lying her fat arse off the intire time...

well kindy/school holidays are over so back to our usual routine now. our hoilday asscess went well excluding bms complants about how we had sd hair cut so she now believes she needs to go get it done properly which will cost her money the poor dear. and now just a bit nervious about firday as the shared care battle starts so feeling a bit edgy as these proceedings where never nice in the past and it wore all of us down from the continual bitchyness of it all. on a funny note i found the brother in law and his partner on my space and was having a good giggle over it.

well when hubby got home from work last night and once the little ones where in bed we talked over the situation with the invite and other matters and decided to decline the invite but instead of just saying no we emailed the brother and his fiance and told them how we currently feel about them and why and how it could be resolved the ball is now in their court to make amends.

well for those of you who have read my blogs you will understand the relationship my hubby and i have with his brother and fiance.
for those who don't i'm sorry if this doesn't make sence but we haven't seen or heard from my husbands brother since november last year due to very selfish and demeaning actions, they have missed basicly half of my youngest sons life.