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that friggin' cow.....

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i will apologise for this next blog right now as i know i do not have anything nice to say next....this is a complete rant next the bm has crossed the line and is driving us crazy so i have a few nasties to get off my chest, sorry to anyone who doesn't like mad crazy ranting....

i just don't understand....

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well guys it's the end of our weekend access and let me tell you i'm on the verge of tears yet again. i never thought i could hate this woman any more then i already do but guess what i do, i'm just so angry at this absolute cow....

if you've read my previous blogs you would know that we had some drama on friday about bm returning sd items to our house and then on saturday sd asked about joining tap and jazz.

well saturday we emailed bm with a terms and conditions list of enroling sd into the dance classes and text to to make sure she read it prior to pick up tonight.

extra curiculum activities....

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well it's saturday and this morning we have had an interesting conversation with sd6.
for ages now she has wanted to do jazz and tap dancing which my sons where involved in for like 2 terms and then stoppped but sd has kept wanting to join. we told her that it is not up to us and she should ask her bm. well this morning talking with sd6 and she said that she has asked bm if she could join jazz and tap and the bm told her to talk to her dad and me about it.

oh my friggin' god

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i am so bloody pissed off currently, as hubby has just gone and pick up step daughter and once again we have recieved her in absolutly filthy clothing, and dirty herself ( with old poo stains in her underwear) and again we did not recieve all our belongings back. i am so sick of paying for clothing, shoes and assesaries for this little girl just to lose it to that friggin' womans house. so i had hubby call and ask for her to return the things at the end of weekend access but she didn't answer the phone so i sent her a text that was very direct and straight to the point.

is it harder in the beginning or later...

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hi to all, for those that have read my previous blogs you'll know that my sd and i have grown together...
i was talking to a friend recently who has just become a step mother of a 3 year old boy and a 6 year old girl and she was telling me of the differences between just dating her new hubby to now being in the family house. she said her and the little one get on like a house on fire and yet the 6 year old wont even look at her let alone listen to her or follow any instructions given by her.

what is the last straw for you...

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i know each of us all have our own limits and pet annoyences be it with our partners, our friends and family, our children, our step children and then external people but what are some of the things you simply can not stand be it bad language you know like the f word, or is it being rude, ignoring another, trashing bed rooms, cutting you off in lines at the store...
lets have it out what really gets you going and how do you try to cope when its been done?

i'll start some of my pet pevs are:

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