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some times it is just so sad...

QUINJAI3's picture

i come on here every other day or so and some times i have a lot to say some times nothing but each time i stop and read the words of others and i think some times it is just so sad.
many of the words used to discribe our situations are angry, hurtful, sad, desperate and on a rare occasion a few happy ones but i can't help to think we are all wonderful, strong people yet we all seem to be hurting in major or minor ways but hurt none the less. what have we as a community done to be afflected this way, my faults are that i loved a man and wanted to share a life with him but due to coming in after the ex my love is shadowed and taited by the cruelty of another and why she chose to leave him should she not care where his life goes now, yet this is not so and for other what are your "crimes" that you are being punished for stepping in and loving an already discarded person have and once of happiness.
i feel for all those people sharing their hurt as i have felt it to and to share it an know that amungst us "punished" ones we did it from love with love and hopefully one day will be loved not over shadowed or hurt any more.
goodnight sleep well and please have dreams of a time when your words didn't discribe the pain you now feel but of the love and hoping you once had as it may return 10 fold.
Smile happy blogging my sad little community

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Dawn-Moderator's picture

As sad as others actions may make me at times, I'm still not the "sad" human being in this equation. I try to make lemonade as much as possible.

So, cheers everyone..........have a glass of lemonade!!

Dawn

luvdagirl's picture

Yes the exs do make us unhappy at times but the kids can change that with as little as a smile and knowing how much you may change their lives for the better makes it worth every spiteful thing that I've dealt with, hinesight is great.
We may be temporarily afflicted by these females but they have to live with themselves forever, could you think of a worst punishment!
Take a moment today to appreciate yourself for all you do!

Colorado Girl's picture

I agree with what you wrote and I want to say thanks. All I want is a little peace. I want to love my husband and not stress on a day to day basis every time my phone rings. These blogs have given me hope and a realization that I'm not alone and not slowly going insane. I've felt all the feelings stemming from anger and in the end all I am is so sad. I just want to move on with our lives and just live. Thank you for your post; sometimes I feel like I'm being punished and I'm looking for that light at the end of the tunnel too.