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Okay so I’ve got a question...youngest SD (7) is getting a puppy. Apparently she told her mom that she is going to take the puppy everywhere with her, including Daddy's. So my husband said, she will probably just bring her dog with her when she comes on our days and weekends. My response was "probably not!".
I don't know why, maybe it's petty but I don't want "shared custody" of a damn dog! His thing is, well it is SD's dog.
I need feedback on this situation that came about yesterday. But first I will give you a brief synopsis of our situation. So here it goes:
I just wanted to let everyone know that I am officially a BM now!!!!!!!!!!!!! Isaac James got here on Monday at 2:45pm, he's beautiful and I'm so in love!
TTFN
Dawn
After all the doubt our attorney planted, a judge did grant us an ex parte for extrodinary relief giving us SD until further order of the court. 
DH and I feel so much better that now we have proof that we are trying to do the right thing and it we will not be going into to the hearing on Monday in contempt.
We just did a modification and the parenting plan requires that we jump through all sorts of hoops. BM is accusing my hsb of breaking into her house to steal a picture of sd. I don't think so. We have oodles of pics of sd of our own. I am quite certian that my hb did not risk a felony to do a break in that would be completely out of charactor for him. These accusations are ridiculous.
I recently have found myself in a perplexing mindset, I am remembering many of the problems between DH and BM historically, things she has said to he and us, that are sounding far too similar to the things he and I are fighting about now. As I have mentioned in other blogs, we are recently married, have 3 kids between us, and twins on the way. Since finding out about the twins, I have been pulling teeth trying to get him to prioritize me and the babies.
My husband obtain custody of his son when he was 12. We were already engaged and we got married about 6 months later. My SS has been living with us for a little over 2 years now as he is 14 - and will be 15 in the winter.
Our attorney finally got it together enough yesterday to reset the hearing we missed Tuesday for Monday morning. But why the heck didn't get the restraining order or order for temporary possession or whatever he feels like calling it?!!! DH and I have been on him for a week that we want to get back to being legal in keeping SD, and a judge granted us a restraining order for us to keep SD when we felt like BM was going to put SD in danger by taking her to her abusive mother's house before.
I don't like one of my stepdaughters. She is only six years old, but I have trouble even liking her. When her father and I started dating fours years ago, we got along great. I find her to be completely irritating now. She lives with her mother, who I absolutely cannot stand in any way, shape, or form. She is completely spoiled by everyone, gets everything she wants, and thinks she is just the cutest thing.
My DH and I are going to a wonderful counselor Monday to talk about how to deal with his Ex Adult SD! Remember? Should he stand up to her about me or should I stand up to her! She uses us and what should we do about it! I can't wait to hear what she has to advise!! I hope I am happy with the results! I may be swallowing my pride! I ll let y'all know who it goes! I will say I plan on taking her advise if I like it or not! (i hope...LOL)
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