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What a mess I am

Krissy's picture

It was EX's year to have SS on the 4th of July. Because I am STUPID, I called to remind him. He did know, but BB of course told him that we had SS last year and this was HER year so EX would not be seeing him. That's a blatant lie, and we have emals from last year that prove it, so I told EX where they are and he retrieved them, forcing her to let SS be with his father. I felt a little dumb for having gotten in the middle, and I vowed that this would be my last time dealing with this again.

What am I doing wrong?

lostinthought's picture

Hello I am new to this forum and I have so much to ask. Well to get started I have had so much drama going on with my SS BM. Me and my husband have been married for 2 years. I have had nothing but H**l since from his ex. We have my SS every weekend and every wed from 5-8. Then we have him for 6 weeks during the summer. Before we were married when teh six week period came around my Husband would let my ss bm keep him while he worked. Well since we have been married when that time comes around they throw a huge fit because he is with me at my daycare.

My wounded BF

Little Jo's picture

We are still sorting through the tax stuff. 2 days ago we found out in 2000 when they closed a 401K, BF mark the box that said 'take the taxes out of this check'. DK changed it before sending it in. She took extra money for God knows what, and now that is getting added on to this train wreck. The tax stuff will get through, but it's his feelings right now that is the problem.

He is so freaking hurt by the fact she did this to him while he was under the immpression the marrage was fine.

Any extra advice on how to fix something that you didn't break.

Jo

House key and ex wife

Dona's picture

Hi,

I am a new member and also having a new experience with my divorced boyfriend with three kids.

Is it normal for his ex wife to have a key to his new house even after she left the marriage, lives 5 miles away from him? He says it's because in case the kids get locked out. My problem with it is that he's always there for the kids and she's never to be found even if htey were locked out of the house. Does not make sense.

One small step for man...how DCS went

Nymh's picture

We had a meeting with the lady from DCS the other day. She was very nice, polite, and unassuming. We welcomed her into our home warmly and she was obviously impressed from the beginning. I know that from what she had most likely heard from BM, she was probably expecting our house to be in shambles with drugs and naked people laying on our dirty, soiled couches! Sorry, BM - you're going to have to try a *little* harder to make us look bad...lies don't really hurt us when the truth is so easy to see.

Discipline Question

Cindy's picture

Hey Guys - I haven't blogged in ages but I lurk every single day. Lurking here has kept me sane. Things have been crazy busy of late and I have allowed myself to just get tied up in knots trying to do it all. Anyway just wanted to say hi to everyone - old and new - and to re-commit to participating fully to this community.

Dooms Day Approaching

TacNitemares's picture

Well the vacation is upon us. Leaving tomorrow with my five kids and my honey going cross country to pick up his two kids and go camping. The nightmare has already started. The BM his x wife is trying to ruin our plans already wanting BD to come get his kids Alone (leaving us up in the mountains with no vehichle and out of cell phone service to spend the entire day with his kids alone then meet the BM for dinner after.

Just Getting Started...

DontStepOnMe's picture

Hello, I'm new here...I don't know where to start. To give you some background, my skids are actually my husband's nieces that he adopted as babies, since their BM (his sister) fried her brain due to an 18 year crack cocaine habit. She is like a 2nd grader, but I guess the one good thing is that I don't have to deal with an ex. Anyways, at the beginning of our relationship I really admired him for doing that, and it was one of the reasons why I knew he was a good man. I still believe that deep down he is a good man. We've been together nine years, married eight.

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