I'm going to wait a week at least before talking to my daughters about the whole car thing. I want to make sure I'm saying the right things and things that are helpful and I want to think about it beforehand 

I think that I just want to let them know that they're getting older and deserve more freedom especially now that they have their license.. As to what choices they can make... As far as coming and going. If they want to stay the odd night here or there just text. And to have a discussion with their dad if needed etc. And just tell them they can use my car mostly as their own

So it became very apparent last night that my ex is not allowing the kids to drive his new beater car over and that he is forcing the kids to not come over Tuesdays on his week like they had been. (last post). Because all of the sudden he allowed my daughter to use this car on the Tues only so she could drive back to his house after and not stay over

I read some old texts. Winterglow was 100 percent right. The text from him said if I didn't want to split on a car to use between our houses he would buy them a car for use at his place only....... So there you have it 

To me it seems like my kids father is trying to block my kids from coming to my house during his week.. By telling them they can't have the car overnight or in the evenings. I think... He wants them strictly week on week off with no variance 

I posted previously about my 17 yo daughter getting her license. Her dad seemingly buying them a car to use. Him saying it's going to be a game changer for our driving problems.. Save some drives. The girls thought the car was mostly for them.