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Part 4: The first night without fiance'

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Submitted by 1wits_end on Mon, 07/02/2007 - 9:59am

I have admit I missed him being there. Part of me is glad that he has finally made that transition, however I really did miss him last night. I couldn't sleep and all through the night I asked for God to give me strength to continue to handle things. He has been extra nice to me, making sure things are paid, and that my son and I have everything we need. I'm sure that's guilt. He still insists that he is coming back to me after he ends things with her the right way....whatever that means. This is one of the hardest things I've done...please continue to pray for me guys...thanks.

Part 2 of fiance' wanting 2 go back 2 exw......

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Submitted by 1wits_end on Mon, 06/11/2007 - 3:23pm

Of course she said yes...he claims this is the first time it was discussed....and she says, "yeah come on back." I believe they have been discussing this.....Then you all are not going 2 believe this but he had the balls 2 ask me can we still see each other, that he loves me and doesn't want 2 let me go.... OMG!!!!!!!!!!!! I said 2 him how are you claiming 2 go back for the family and do right by your ex and you still want 2 be with me. The whole conversation was mind blowing 2 me......please help me 2 understand what the hell is going on with this a#$hole...........

Fiance' admitted he wants 2 work things out w/ex

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Submitted by 1wits_end on Sat, 06/09/2007 - 5:36pm

How do you handle that......our life 2gether is based upon whether or not she wants 2 take him back....which she wasn't the one who wanted the divorce....I know I should just say screw him, but it's so hard because I love him. I'm not surprised at his actions because all of the things he was doing should have prepared me for this i.e. visiting sk @ her house, taking her non driving a#$ where she needs 2 go. I just feel so used, so dumb...I just feel like our whole relationship was a joke. Please help.

Need advice quick!!!

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Submitted by 1wits_end on Fri, 05/25/2007 - 10:15pm

I told him once again how unconfortable I was with him visiting the chidren at his ex's house....I asked him how would he would feel if my ex came over here to visit my son at the house everyday....he said they can visit outside all he wants, but not in the house..he claims he is just over there with skids andn he doesn't even interact with her.....I just don't agree with that...I seems very disrespectful to me....he says that I am being selfish because my son lives with me.....I then made the suggestion again about them coming to our house to spend the night are stay for the day....but he

Should fiance' visit children at ex-wife's house?

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Submitted by 1wits_end on Mon, 05/21/2007 - 7:30pm

I feel so upset that he has to go over to his ex-wife's house to visit his 2 children. I have a son and my ex doesn't visit our son at our house. My fiance wouldn't stand for that. His ex doesn't want me around the children unless it's for her benefit, i.e. when she went out of town. I think he should bring the children to our home when he wants to visit with them. I guess I feel threatned by him visiting over there because I know that she is still in love with him...Am I wrong for voicing my opinion about him bringing the children to our home?