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Wednesday's Hearing ...

Mocha2001's picture

Okay ladies (and gentlemen), keep us in your thoughts and prayers ... our hearing is Wednesday at 2pm PST. I won't be home to update everyone until around 11pm (I have a double headder softball game), but I will update everyone.

BB responded and spent 4-pages bringing up stuff that is completly irrelevant to our hearing, and has already been resloved by the court. She did not refute any of the major arguements we made. Basically, she didn't have a leg to stand on, so she didn't have anything she could refute, so she brought old stuff into the picture that is irrelevant.

Thank God for SD16

Little Jo's picture

I just got off the phone with her. They are NOT moving today. They did move out of the house they shared with the Brother. DK is up north and is job and house hunting. They are looking to move up for August 1st. In the mean time, the kids are spread out.
One is w/DK at a friend's, one is w/ their Grandmother, Sd16 doesn't know where SD14(turned 15 today) is staying and she is staying at her BF's. We talked for a while and she wants me & BF to call her later.

As I think, why the F**King drama at midnight.

Is it necessary to have contact with BM?

Dona's picture

Because I am new at being GF to BF with 3 kids, is it necessary for me to have any future contact with BM once I get married? or even now. It is a serious relationship. She has already made me an enemy without meeting me first.

How do you deal with it? I am talking about seeing each other at soccer games, phone calls and etc...

At first my BF was suggesting to do so, but after her actions and my telling him that I don't want to be around her, he has dropped the subject.

What do I do?

The Midnight Phone Call

Little Jo's picture

It was DK's Brother. ((What now??????))
Gosh, how do I give you gals the short version.

Brother has diarrhea of the mouth. Spilling all sorts of beans, the biggest being that DK is taking the girls & moving 2 hours north of us in a couple of days(so they can be closer to DK's 'Captain America' BF) DK told the girls and him to keep the move a secret. But Now Brother & DK had a huge falling out. DK left the house at mid-night with the girls headed who knows where.

How do you distance yourself?

Struggling Step Mom's picture

I have been spending time reading this morning and I realize that everyone handles Step parenting differently. I have come to the point in my relationship with SD that is nothing and I will have to take some responsibility for it. I do not agree with the way she is being raised. I am shocked by her behavior and the fact that she is NEVER accountable for her actions. I have the 'gut feeling' that she is heading for a lot of trouble. BUT no one seems to care but me.

poor dh

lmdavi0's picture

so court was today. the judge suspended his visitation until he does at least two counseling sessions with bb. dh broke down in court because it's so unfair that bb can spew off at the mouth with her lies and yes, copies of my text messages, recorded phone conversations with dh, but yet when dh tried to explain how he hasn't gotten to see or talk to sd for weeks now, nothing. i know the judge is just aggravated because he told them to seek counseling. and i told dh back when the judge requested counseling to just do it. don't get me wrong, i know why he didn't want to.

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