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I made sd cry

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Thursday night sd was being kinda hateful real snotty and usually I just blow it off well I am sick of it so I jumped her butt and made her cry...I was on the phone with my mom and sd kept telling my son to pick up his toys in which he did need to do but it was not her place to tell him what to do so when she said to him "Pick up your toys or your going to your room" I said "I am his mother not you and if he needs to do something I will be the one to tell him" her jaw dropped she didn't know what to think she sat there for a minute and then went to her room a few minutes later my son said "

I saw it coming...

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I am always RIGHT about this stuff....So last week I spoke to sd and bb and explained that we would not be buying school clothes this year...however we would buy school supplies...as a matter of fact while I was discussing this with sd bb said "I will buy everything you need for school this year"...well I knew better than that we go through this every year...last year the dump bitch waited until the night before the 1st day of school and called hubby freaking out because sd did not have any new clothes so I ran out and bought 5 or 6 outfits then the selfish whore wouldn't even meet me to pi

sd is acting like her mother

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So Thursday night sd called bf cell phone he was at the gym so I answered we lost the connection so I called her back my mistake...anyway I said "Hi whats going on" her response "I wanted to talk to my dad" I then said "Well honey he is at the gym and he usually leaves his cell phone here" she comes back with "Well I guess I know not to call then"...I didn't responde and I guess to break the silence she says "Is the house clean?" I kinda laughed and said "YEAH, it pretty much stays clean besides toys" the little shit says "Well thats a SHOCK" needless to say I was irratated WHY on earth do

modification questions

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So we currently pay $350.00 per month cs which I know is not much, but I can't help but think about the fact that bb is currently making more money than my husband and she is living with her parents she filed bankruptcy so as far as I know the only bill she has is car and cell phone which truth be told cs pays for that, she has a coke problem as well..anyway last year after my husband and I got married we received modification papers bb thought my income would be added WRONG>..she must have done some research because they dropped the modification, so like I said in previous post my husba

just a little advise...

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Recently my neighbors were telling me about there child custody case...they apparently were able to get online (google case net + state) and you can look up cases on anyone or at least in our state (MO) anyway my neighbor put in names of BM and kids and discovered BM had given guardian ship of kids to a friend without telling BF she apparently had a drug charge against her and if she didn't do something kids would have gone to DFS...BM apparently told judge that BF was not involved in kids lives and judge granted guardian ship to BM friends..anyhow my neighbors are now in the process of get

Im ashamed to admit...

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I really need help ladies, I truely am ashamed to admit this but I am allowing BM to take over my thought process...I can not stand her she makes me absolutely sick, but I find myself wanting to know everything about her I am looking for dirt I guess...I don't know why but I compare myself to her in everyway...Its strange really because she is the one who tries to out do me all the time and I have allowed her to suck me into the constant competition and it is driving me nuts...I feel completely stupid even admitting this to anyone else but I need some sound advice on how to stop the sanity.

BM seems to be getting on SD nerves...hahaha

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Ok so sd is visting for 2 weeks she has been here a week today...I have kept her pretty busy everyday because she doesn't come often and when she does its only for a couple of days, so we have been doing lots of stuff with the kids..so needless to say her mom is the last thing on her mind for no other reason than she is a kid and she is having fun...but I don't think BM is dealing well...she has called every day sometimes 2 or 3 times a day which to me is odd because when we lived closer and sd would come with us BM never called to check on her...I understand that we live 4 hours away but c

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