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NEED TO VENT!!!!

Well today I find out that BM has called DH to see if I can watch SS and the other 3 kids while she works. I would not have a problem with it if it was only SS and she would work a normal(7am-7pm)job. She is married to a man that only works from 7am-5pm Monday thru Friday. She did not have to find a job, she did this on her own. She has qualifications to office work, so that she could still be there for her kids, but where does she go to work at? A bar, now I don't knock anyone that works in a bar, but for her this is THE ONLY PLACE SHE WANTS TO WORK!! So why do I have to watch her kids?

I AM STILL ALIVE!!!

I am sorry that I have been absent lately I have been enjoying my pregnancy. No more morning sickness. HOORAY!!!! I have been shopping up a storm with my parents and ss. Who has been enjoying the fact that he will be having a new baby brother or sister in January. But there is the other issue at hand the BM, who still says that ss will be left out. I take him to ALL my doctor appts, he comes shopping with me. He helps pick out paint for the nursery, he evens gets to give he say in baby names( even the ones I don't what to hear).

CASE CLOSED

O kay so yesterday Dh and I had to go meet with a detective and the social service guy in the court house to get Dh's side of the story. Long story short the detective noticed that Dh and ss story do not match. SS was caught in a lie three times he could not remember what he told one person to the next. SS told three different stories he told social services that it was on his leg, he told dectective it was on his neck (collar would not fit my dog weights 10 pounds so she has a very small neck). Then he told a secretary in that office that it was a joke his daddy did nothing wrong.

CHILD SERVICES

Let me start off by saying that Child Services is a F**king joke. They came to our house this morning looking for Dh, whom we all know is offshore, because about 3 weeks ago Dh and ss were playing with a training collar that is for our 1 year old schnauzer. They were EACH seeing how for they could go with it shocking them before they would flench. Now the doggy day care & our vet has assured me that it is only as strong as a 9 volt battery, nothing to do any harm to my dog,ss,orDh. So CS came and was asking me all kinds of questions that I don't know the answers to.

Am I horrible???

Well Dh slipped up today, he told BM that we are pregnant. Dh works offshore and will be leaving soon(24 hour call does not know when he will be back). Bm wanted me to keep ss, I have no problem keeping him, but the morning sickness is killing me!!! Not the vomiting but the nausea, it is to the point where I just want to lay in bed. So, he told her that it would not be a good idea. Well she got pissed off. Mind you this is not my first pregnancy this is my 3rd, one was still born, one miscarriage due to stress.

GREAT NEWS

I am having a baby!!!!!!!!!!!YIPE!!!!!!!! We have not told ss yet we are giong to wait until I am at least 3 months before we tell him. We are just trying to get ajusted to the idea of more than one child in this house. I am or course not breathing a word of this to bm who will stress me out. So as of now mum's the word, with a few exceptions. So someone tell me what it will be like with a bio-child and ss. What kind of problems will I face???:)

Proud of DH!!!!

O kay so ss went home on Sunday, just for 2 nights. Well here we are on Thrusday and no ss. Bm is not answering her phone, which is not nothing new she tenda to do this from time to time when nothing is going her way. Dh & I think ss told her he wanted to live here, which would not be a bad idea, maybe then he might have a chance at a normal life, ONE WITHOUT DRAMA!!!!I can see him coming back when he does something wrong and she needs someone to control him. I told DH that if she can't answer her phone why should I.

Thoughts

O kay so you all know about ss getting expelled from school. He has been here for 2 days now. All is good for the time being. Then out of left field comes this. Bm called and said that she thinks it is time for him to go back over there. I have been talking to this boy about what he done. I was finally making progress and then she wants him back over there. When he goes it will all be over all the good things I put in him will be gone. She does not have the time for him, he has 2 brothers ages 9 & 1, along with 1 sister age 3.

The biggest joke I ever heard

This one is terrific, BM found out we are trying to have a baby, Her response was that it is not fair to SS. He will not be the only child anymore. Also said she would be mad at us for this. SS told her that we wanted a baby mind you. Not his place. Then she proceded to ask if she could be the god-mother. Did this bitch just fall off her rocker. There is no way in hell I would let that happen, she can bearly take care of her on kids. Just thought ya'll could us a laugh!!

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sick to my stomach

I don't know where to even start, My 10 year-old step-sonjust got expelled from school. Now that he is expelled his mother wants us to keep him, for a while. He is in the third grade for the second time around. Why should my husband & I have to be the one now that he is in trouble be the authority figure. He gets in trouble at her house my husband has to fuss him, he gets bad grades again my husband has to fuss him. She blames everyhting on medicine she says he needs medicine, he was on medicine he was the same way. He has no cares when it comes to being fussed or punished.

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