Am I wrong?
Dh and his EX used to share the same Doctor. Once the marriage ended she decided to get another. His DR knows all about the affair she had and his emotional crap he went through. When I met hubby and moved to his city I startd going to the same office (different Doctor). Our son goes there and our soon to be daugther will go there.
Well, the Ex wants to return there. There are a million other doctors (we live a fairly big city)and she wants to go to this doctor's office and she wants to go to my doctor.
She has caused me a lot of grief over the years and I am not comfortable with her going there. So I asked DH is he could politely ask her to find someone else. He refuses to and says I am being unreasonable. He and her and Sd all go to the same dentist. I made concessions to have our son in the same daycare as SD...even though I am uncomfortable everyday when I pick him up that I will run into her.
Is it a unresonable request of him? I know she could say "I'll do whatever I want" and he has no control. Then it will be up to me to find someone else if I desire.
Why can't he say BOO to her? He is so afraid of her. He can listen to her go off about me for 2 hours and not say a thing but carry through with one little request that I have and he refuses.
Am I wrong?