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See, it is already Friday and SD still doesn't have her bed outta here. I mentioned to DH that she would probably need his help tomorrow if she plans to be gone before the weekend is up. She works at 5 tomorrow evening and starts at 1 on Sunday. I won't be home to help and frankly, she doesn't want my help, so he will be the one to bear the brunt (no, she won't be concerned about his health.). His response: "Then I guess she won't be out of here by the end of the week." ARGH!!!!!
talked to bb again today and she told she wasn't bringing sd on thursday for our three-week vacation b/c she didn't want her to go with me. i asked her why and she said because sd doesn't want to spend time with me, she wants to spend it with dh...so why doesn't dh get his three weeks then? yeah, can you say contradiction? it just wears me out; that's why by the time i post on here, i'm so over it i don't disclose very much. the bottom line is that it's our vacation time and she has no say what dh wants to do with her.
We finally found a lawyer! There is some good, some bad and some terribly ugly, but the positive thing is that we found the woman for the job.
Well Dh slipped up today, he told BM that we are pregnant. Dh works offshore and will be leaving soon(24 hour call does not know when he will be back). Bm wanted me to keep ss, I have no problem keeping him, but the morning sickness is killing me!!! Not the vomiting but the nausea, it is to the point where I just want to lay in bed. So, he told her that it would not be a good idea. Well she got pissed off. Mind you this is not my first pregnancy this is my 3rd, one was still born, one miscarriage due to stress.
so bm finally tells us the custody schedule for summer. without even asking if the schedule is ok w/us....just tells us. 2 weeks w/us and then she goes to vegas for 2 1/2 weeks. we are suppose to split the summer equally and so far it looks like it's not divided equally. no thanks to the short notice, now we have to figure out what to do w/ss while we are working...most of the summer programs are full. bm is the most irritating person in the whole world and i just can't stand her!
First Global developmental delay with low tone, then Inattentive ADD and now to put the icing on the cake now they think 6 yr old BS has a mood disorder or ODD ( Obsivie Defiant Disorder) I don't know what else I can do I feel so overwhelmed I don't know if I can take much more.
I am fairly new to this blog. I changed my username after the whole BM finding stepmom thing happened, because I got worried about our BM finding me. Anyhow, I have a strange story to report that made me feel a little sick inside but also laugh pretty hard. DH and I got the kids after a vacation with BM just last night. The kids came in, I was cooking dinner and the phone rang. Now, I have caller ID, but had just hung up with my mom and thought she was calling me right back, so I didn't even give it time to show the caller. It was BM.
Feel free to tell me if I am being selfish or "lay into" me as needed. Ok a little background on my situation. I am engaged to a man that has a 5 year old son with one woman and a 13 month old daughter with another. I have a 6 year old daughter from a previous marriage. My divorce was recently finalized and I got full custody of my daughter. BF is still waiting for his divorce to become final...should be in a few more weeks. My main concern and what is making me feel extremely selfish is that during the 2 weeks out of the month that his daughter is with us I seem to be her caregiver.
and she said 'absolutely not. her vacation is with him, not you!' ouch. so i'm the big, bad guy, huh? interesting. what is equally astonishing is that we were having a great conversation until she found out dh doesn't want anything to do with her, won't go to counseling with her, and from now on, i told her she and i can communicate. she said 'so i'm going to talk to you on how to help dh become a better father?' i said, you don't have to worry about him, i'm in that position now, you leave that to me. the nerve!
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