Thank goodness the site is back up! I've missed you guys and gals so much! So we got a response from BM on the petition to modify custody that BF served her. She said that BF had caused her severe emotional trauma from serving her these papers. She claims that he is not paying her child support (again) and is suing him for contempt of court. I would think that her lawyer would at least CHECK to see if that was TRUE before sending the paperwork through to sue him. But I guess you can sue anyone for anything you want to nowadays regardless of whether it's true or not.

All of you are totally awesome. I am so happy that there's somewhere I can vent and not get called horrible, or bitter, or jealous (me? of the BM? hah!) From reading some of the earlier posts, I have it pretty darn good.

Have been thinking about my skids alot lately. My DH is missing them alot, of course, and he has pulled through some "tough moments" really well. He is happy about us being here, and with our home life and all, but I know he is worried about his kids, and how they are right now. His mom is supposed to visit with them soon, so she will let us know how they are. My DH did call SS on his cell phone, it went strait to v-mail, and we did not get a call back. I don't even know if he has possesion of the phone, but it was still his v-mail when DH called. I hope all is well with them.

its sd's 16th tomorrow. should i of bought her a card after everything she has said or done? Are we at fault like the 3rd party said "that we are the adults and should be letting her treat us this way?"
Having a moment of regret , it will pass as give it a few days and we will cop abuse for not acknowledging her birthday!