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SS22 Will he accept an offer of employment?

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SS22 applied for and was offered a position at the company he is interning at, but at 60K (annual) he feels the offer is too low and is considering not accepting.

I asked him why he felt it was too low and he said his friends received offers between 70K-75K. I asked, friends with higher GPAs? I got no answer.

I asked him if the other companies he interviewed had extended offers. SS22 - no other company has. This is the only offer.

BM just diagnosed with MS

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BM told DH over the weekend she has MS.  I feel bad for SSons.

I printed a couple of brochures about having a parent with MS and what MS is for the Skids, from the National MS Society. 

SS17 took the information, he was grateful, learning about it took some of his anxiety away.

DH and I asked both SSons if they wanted to talk about it.  SS17 said maybe later. SS21 didn't want to talk either he said he had looked MS up online and knew about it and that BM saud she was fine, so she is fine.

Update SS21 a.k.a. man-child mooch

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In the days following the last post I have kept my same morning routine.

SS21 spent the last 2 weeks at BMs house, his school is on the trimester system and he was on break.

He came back Sunday night.

SS21 never mention the incident to DH so DH didn't talk to him about it. Not surprised at all.

I have the same morning routine. SS21 acts like nothing happened.

Yesterday morning I was cleaning as usual and SS21 got up before 6:30 a.m. to take a shower. Even said good morning to me on the way to the shower. 

SS21 Yelled at Me This Morning

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I was vacuuming this morning (6:30 a.m..) and SS21 barrels out of his room and asks me why I vacuum in the morning. I told him that since no one helps with the housework and I'm the only one who does it that I get to decide when I want to do it. I don't like doing it at night when I get home for work so I do it before work.

SS21 yells at me that his trying to sleep because he's got an exam today. Then SS21 then tells me that he won't be quiet at night so I can sleep.

Vaping Update

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When SS17 got to our house last week Friday DH had him take the drug test. SS17 didn't test positive for anything, which is awesome.

We talked with him about how dangerous vaping is especially because he has asthma. He also lost his bedroom door for lieing to us. DH took it off the hinges and set it in his room next to the doorway which I think is funny. DH and I will let him have it back after SS17 passes another drug test a couple of weeks from now. SS17 doesn't know about the upcoming drug test.

Want to Skip Christmas

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This month has been awful.

DH was fired from his job of 15 years the Thursday after Thanksgiving. He was interviewing the last two weeks and started a new job this week. It's awesome how well he bounced back. I don't think I could have done it. This has really shaken me up, my stress level has been through the roof but I've been keeping it in, just want to support DH right now.

DH Said "I'm starting to think like you."

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DH was home with the flu yesterday.

SS21 left before I did yesterday morning, which I thought was odd since he doesn't have to be at school till after 10 AM on Mondays.

When I got home last night I commented to DH that SS21 left before I did.

DH said, "Yes, SS21 was probably afraid I'd ask him to help me do something, so he left. See, BettyRay, I'm starting to think like you."

I asked DH if he believed that and he said that he did because every time I've called SS21 out on something I have been right.