SS21 was kind enough to ruin DH's Birthday last week by telling us he's pulling a D in 2 classes. Of course it's not SS21's fault it's always the professor's fault. *eye roll* SS21 told DH at least the grades are passing.
After SS21 left to "study". I told DH whether SS21 graduates or not, there is no way in hell that man-child is living with us after May 25. I'm done. DH agreed and then asked me if I would higher an mechanical engineer with 2 D's on his transcript?
So after the "petty" incident SS21 has been getting up after we leave in the morning and coming home late at night.
I am convinced he's doing his to avoid me. Which makes my life way easier.
When SS21 does run into me he is being halfway pleasant, which is a huge change for him.
I have started vacuuming before I leave for work in the morning.
I give extra attention to the carpeting in the hallway in front of SS21's bedroom door.
So SS21 and I got into it.
We had finished dinner and SS21 asked DH if there was anything he could do to help.
Knowing DH would say SS21 didn't have to help, I jumped in told SS21 that he could vacuum the living and dining rooms.
SS21 barks at me, "No, that it's SS16's week to vacuum".
I shot back and told SS21 he didn't do it the week before which was his week.
DH jumps in and tells SS21 to shut up and a vacuum.
SS21 tells DH that he doesn't like BettyRay's tone.
I left the room.
Just a warning, my petty is real today.
DH and I are both getting over colds. We went grocery shopping for the week on Sunday. DH made Sunday dinner early so SS21 could eat before he went to school to work on a lab.
SS21 got home after we went to bed Sunday night.
Monday morning DH opens the fridge to get the lunch meat to make his sandwich and it's gone, nothing left. We bought almost 2 lbs. of lunch meat Sunday.
I text SS21 when I got to work and ask him to pick up lunch meat on his way home from school Monday night.
SS21 wants a new cellphone.
He was complaining to DH and I on Friday that the power button on his cell sticks and that a new Galaxy was coming out and it was time for an upgrade. SS21 knows better than to ask us for a new cell, he knows we'd flat out tell him NO.
So Saturday SS21 "dropped" his cell in the lake when we got back from tubing.
Sunday night SS21 is at BM's wanting her to buy him a new cell phone. BM said no and that he could either buy his own or use her old one.
DH and I had an awesome time! SS16 was with us for a couple of days; then left because of work. We had a few days alone. Celebrated our anniversary - just the two of us - had a great day and nice dinner. I think this is the first time we've been alone for our anniversary. Normally the SSons are with us.
DH spoke with SS21 last night. DH told SS21 that drinking and vomiting at our house will not be tolerated. If SS21 does this he will be kicked out.
SS21 said he understood and that it wouldn't happen at our house. We'll see.
DH told him that drinking alone is not cool and could be a sign of depression or alcoholism. DH also brought up counseling, SS21 would have nothing to do with it.
So SS21 has been hitting it hard since he turned 21. DH and I didn't really think much about, just thought it was a phase.
DH was talking to BM last night regarding SS16 and she brought up SS21. Apparently SS21 was drinking alone at BM's house (where he is living for the summer) Saturday night. He got sick and threw-up in the hallway between his room and the bathroom and didn't bother to clean it up. When BM questioned him about it SS21 just told her he got up too fast and was dizzy. Don't know if BM addressed the vomit and cleaning up after yourself though.
I can't believe it's been 10 years! Our anniversary is in a few days. DH is proud of this milestone, he never made it to his 10th anniversary with BM. He and I keep joking that this is his first-last 10th wedding anniversary.
DH and I are in a good place now, it wasn't always that way, we've worked really hard at our marriage which makes this anniversary special.
The SSons still drive me nuts but at least now DH sees why I'm upset and makes an effort to back me up, the Daddy blinders are gone for now.
SS20 was doing his laundry at BM's over the weekend. His GF was there (aka Sponge Bob). BM and SDad were in the basement family room and overheard Sponge Bob and SS20. SS20 had stuffed his dirty clothes into the washer and it was packed tight. Sponge Bob told SS20 that he needed to take some of the clothes out of the washer or nothing would get clean. Sponge Bob then made the comment that when they live together she will have to do the laundry. After SDad heard this he butted in and told her point blank: