SS21 Yelled at Me This Morning
I was vacuuming this morning (6:30 a.m..) and SS21 barrels out of his room and asks me why I vacuum in the morning. I told him that since no one helps with the housework and I'm the only one who does it that I get to decide when I want to do it. I don't like doing it at night when I get home for work so I do it before work.
SS21 yells at me that his trying to sleep because he's got an exam today. Then SS21 then tells me that he won't be quiet at night so I can sleep.
No one threatens me in my home. I was shaking I was so angry. I told him he can find another place to live if he doesn't like the living conditions. I added that my life makes his life possible, you know, food, heat, electricity, a place to sleep, the basics.
SS21 stomped back into his bedroom.
Backstory - DH started a new job at the end of December. He gets up at 5 a.m.. to leave for work. I've been getting up with him because the dogs go nuts if I stay in bed and DH gets up. I've found I can get a lot of housework done before I leave for work at 7 a.m.. Vacuuming, sweeping, laundry, dishes - all done before work.
I don't even want to go home tonight. I'm physically drained from the run in this morning and I don't want to see SS21 tonight.
I'm so sick of this. SS21 doesn't help with anything. It snowed yesterday. When I got home from work last night SS21's car was parked on the road and DH was snowplowing. SS21 never even offered to help DH. Which is no surprise because SS21 did the same thing to us last week.
DH said he'd talk to SS21 tonight but I'm sure it will not make a difference. DH has talked to SS21 many times before and hasn't gotten through to him.