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BM & Skids Moving in with BM's SO

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Lots of change for the skids in the next couple of months:

BM and her SO bought a house together and are moving in together within the next 2 weeks. This is the first guy that BM has introduced the skids to since the divorce 10+ years ago.

BM’s SO is ex-military and OCD as in there is a place for everything and everything in its place. DH and I met him at various schools events last year and he seems like a nice guy. IMHO he has no idea what he’s getting into.

Braces Blow-Up

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So DH went off on ME last night.

It started out innocent enough - SS12 called and asked DH to look for his karate belt. DH asked me to help.

So we're looking around SS12's room. I found an overdue library book from SS12's middle school.

I also found all SS12's stuff from the orthodontist - special toothbrushes, floss and toothpaste - sparkly new, never opened, still in the boxes and in the bag from the orthodontist. I showed it to DH and asked him if he knew SS12 had all this stuff and didn't use it.

Father's Day Recap

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So typical.

BM called 2x Friday night, 5x Saturday and 5x Sunday. The last time on Sunday was while DH was opening his Father's Day present. DH threw his cell to SS12 and SS12 walked into the kitchen to talk to BM. She has awesome timing, I'll give her that.

Most of the problem is DH. He should have let the call go to voice-mail and had SS12 call BM after DH opened his present. The other part of the problem is BM; I heard SS12 say as he was walking out of the room, "Dad's opening his present." That should have been her que to call back later.

Survived another Skid Weekend Snafu (long)

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Memorial Day: DH calls skids and asks them if they want to go to our cabin this weekend. SS17 says yes he totally wants to go; SS12 said yes as well.

DH developed a plan with SS17, since SS17 had to work on Sunday. They decide that SS17 and SS12 will meet at DH’s work and we’ll leave from there. SS17 will follow DH so he can leave Saturday night to be home for work on Sunday. DH and I tell SS17 we’ll pay for SS17’s gas.

Heart to Heart with DH

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Last night DH started rehashing Mother’s Day. DH is angry at SS17 and SS12 because they didn’t acknowledge me on Mother’s Day. I guess they got me a card but forgot it at BM’s. DH had talked to them a couple of times (before Mother’s Day) about thanking all the women in their lives that love and support them. DH is going on and on about how he can’t believe they are so selfish and ungrateful.

Happy Mother's Day!

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Just wanted to wish all you ladies a Happy Mother's Day.

DH and I just got back from a great Harley ride. Spending time with him is the best present ever. DH got me a sweet Mother's Day gift, totally unnecessary but it's sweet that he acknowledges me.

I'm going to pick up my mom later for dinner. I hope you all are having a nice Mother's Day.

~BettyRay

What DH told BM last night

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When DH picked up the skids last night he told BM the following:

“A year from now SS17 will be 18 and graduating high school. I want you [BM] to know that if SS17 doesn’t do one of the following I will not continue to cover on our healthcare plan:

1. Attend college or trade school and work part-time.
2. Work full-time.
3. Work multiple part-time jobs where the total hours worked a week equal 40 hours.”

Update - Ingrown Toenail

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The skids got back to BM’s Sunday night.

Monday morning - BM took SS17 to a walk-in clinic and was prescribed an antibiotic.

Monday noon - DH got a call from BM telling him the way he had treated SS17’s toe was totally wrong. (DH had SS17 soak his foot twice a day in hot water, and then poured peroxide over it. In the mornings DH would put Neosporin on it and bandage it; in the evenings DH had SS17 prop his foot up and let the air on it until bedtime; then DH would apply the Neosporin and bandage.)

An Ear Ache and an In-Grown Toenail…Ah…It Must Be Spring Break

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We just got back from our spring break vacation with the skids. Overall it was a good trip. This is the first family vacation we’ve had in 5 years. There are just a few things I need to vent about:

1. Thanks ever so much BM for letting SS12 do 3 sleepovers within the 2 weeks before our trip. This resulted in his “ear feeling funny”. So after a trip the our GP and a prescription for antibiotics we were on our way – driving cross country for 13 hours, with a sick kid, awesome.

I forgot

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So this morninig I forgot to tell SS16 & SS12 to take their lunches. I forgot to make sure SS16 had his work-shirt. I forgot to make sure SS12 had his ADD med. And what happened?

The boys left without their lunches. SS16 left his workshirt and SS12 didn't take his ADD med.

DH was pissed and I know he blames me but he kept his mouth shut.

My mom is having health problems and I'm totally distracted. She's having surgery tomorrow and getting test results this morning for something unrelated to the surgery.

But REALLY DH? REALLY?

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