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Father's Day Recap

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Submitted by BettyRay on Tue, 06/17/2014 - 2:59pm

So typical.

BM called 2x Friday night, 5x Saturday and 5x Sunday. The last time on Sunday was while DH was opening his Father's Day present. DH threw his cell to SS12 and SS12 walked into the kitchen to talk to BM. She has awesome timing, I'll give her that.

Most of the problem is DH. He should have let the call go to voice-mail and had SS12 call BM after DH opened his present. The other part of the problem is BM; I heard SS12 say as he was walking out of the room, "Dad's opening his present." That should have been her que to call back later.

This 5 calls a day thing has been going on for the 10 years I've been with DH. He's never had the balls to establish a boundary with BM. I could understand one or 2 BM calls on our days but 5 or more???? And they're way older now too, 12 & 17.

I mean really. Just a sad ploy by BM to interrupt DH's parenting time and insert herself into our time the boys.

~BettyRay

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Submitted by BettyRay on Wed, 06/18/2014 - 9:21am

It's nice that you're respectful of your ExH's time with your DD.

BM has no sense. She got each of the boys cell phones so she could call them directly. Well the boys never answer when she calls. So she still calls DH to talk to the boys, and the boys still have the cell phones.

~BettyRay