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Prayers this morning, and moments of silence. 7 years, and it still knocks the wind out of me like it did that day. I think of our brave men and women who are fighting for our freedom, and pray for their safe return to their families who wait. Just wanted to take a moment. United we stand.
I have been pretty content with the way things have been going in my household. But for some reason today just blew up in my face. SS12 and BS8 were playing ball in the house and broke a mirror on the wall. I was going to punish both for not following the rules of not playing ball in the house. I punish BS8. Then when I go to do the same to SS12 he flips out. Screams in my face. Says he's going to kill himself. Then he says to me, his mom is the only one who cares about him. He takes off and has his nanny down the road take him to his moms house.
Today is day number 30 since BM was served with the petition to modify custody. She did not have a formal response to the petition, but BF's lawyer was contacted today by a lawyer who is representing her. He told BF's lawyer that they are preparing her response and he should have it soon. I asked if that counted since she technically didn't legally respond in the given time frame. BF's lawyer said that even though we could legally pursue a default judgement, a judge wouldn't allow it anyway and it would only make us look bad.
I think I need to watch what I type on here for awhile due to the situation at hand. I don't want any information falling into the wrong hands. I may need to delete some of my blogs on here, but for those that have PM'd me, I will keep you updated, and anyone wanting updates, please feel free to PM me
We talked,
It was difficult. I was honest. First, I told him all that was bothering me. He countered with my moodiness was affecting not only him, but his daughter. We agreed to end it.
So for the next hour or so, we wandered around the kitchen trying to figure out where to go from here. What we do with the house...etc. He laughed and said that I was so practical about the logistics of it ending. I admitted that I was devestated that I was losing my best friend.
well, unless they have got the message that we arent taking any bullshit or they planning something else , it's very quite ... sd didnt even ring hubby for fathers day...
here in aussie land a show A Curreent Affair ran a story about the news and how unfair there are are so i wrote in and hopefully more will.
I dont know if i like the quite its a bit nerve wrecking!
I'd do a poll but I don't know how.
What do you do for fun? Just for yourself, to relax, to relieve stress...
I'm a bit new here and I know many of you know each other very well but I just thought it would be nice for us all to share something personal that is fun and isn't about step-kids or husbands/boyfriends.
SS16, who had been living w/his father and I since 2004, decided this past winter to go live w/biomom. Since moving there, he and his mom went halfsies on a car, so SS would have a vehicle to drive. Since getting this car, SS16 has had one major driving ticket that was given in a state other than our own (bottom line, the kid went on a joy ride); this state required that the kid appear in court.
SD11 runs track this year. About a month ago when track started, her mom 'forgot' to turn in the proper paperwork even though BM had promised SD11 that she'd turned it in. Well obviously not so much becuase SD11 calls her dad HYSTERICALLY crying to see if he'd take care of it... which of course he did by calling BM and picking up the missing paperwork. Then BM made it a point to tell me her jaded version of the whole ordeal when I dropped off SD11 and how it was all SD11's fault. I just nodded my head, smiled, and got in my car and rolled my eyes. I don't even care.
At what age is it no longer appropriate to allow a daughter to sleep alone with her dad