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I appreciate any input here; he's rambling ON AND ON about how
he can never make plans or I'm jealous (I'm purposely rambling
here) and how he can never do anything but I can do whatever I want (??? I work, come home, take care of the pets, teach college, make money)
He was calm as a cucumber all weekend; then tonight he goes
ballistic; is that bipolar?
God, I love this site. Geez, I'm the one who's supposed to be
PMS. He's acting like HE'S PMS!!
Just got back from a marvelous weekend with SD13 & H. I took her Friday afternoon to his apartment, and she and I stayed until this morning. Loooong drive home-and took her on another 30 miles so SD17 would not be coming to pick her up and undo all I tried to accomplish this weekend.
If anyone has read my previous posts, I had a huge fight with H and left him a few weeks ago because I found bm in my house for the umpteenth time...which we had agreed wasn't to happen, but oh my it did and sure enough I went supersonic on both of them. Long story short, i left him after a scream fest with her and him. But I came back a couple of days later and we've tried to pick up the pieces.
It seems that a majority of the step parents on this site despise their step kids. I DO NOT! I love them dearly just as they were my own. I am the only real mother figure they have ever known. Their BM was very unstable mentally. I understand that these step kids are probably a handful, disrespectful, etc. because of outside influences. However, in my experience, my step kids are no more disrepectful, thoughtless, thankless, lazy, whiney, rude, gripey, and spoiled than my own. I just think that with our own kids we tend to overlook alot of that.
As I told you all before in a earlier post that my husband slept with his ex-wife the mother of his 3 children. We have one son together and I also have one without him. Which I dont talk to my ex at all.. Just bout our son, I never see him or nothing.
Anyways..
So I found out what the new "modification" request. BM is wanting to terminate DH's parenting time all together except for allowing only 2 weeks consecutive in the summer. Can you believe this??!! We just agreed in Feb. of this year and now the monster is wanting to take back what she has already agreed to!!
If you have read my blog you know that BM committed suicide. I have been raising her 3 kids for 13 years and they are all 18 or older now. In fact 2 of their birthdays were last week (B18 and G19). We have not heard from BM's family since her death which has been 2 years in october. Their grandmother sent them each a card and written on the inside is a little passage about how much she misses them and loves them and if they want to call her, they can call her house number at XXX or her cell number at XXXX and then she states that the cell number is their mom's old number.
I am engaged to my BF of 2 years. His ex-wife has been remarried for 2 years to a younger guy. We live 1000 miles from them(kids) and don't see them very much anymore. Due to his job.
The girls are now 8 and 6.
As I told you all before in a earlier post that my husband slept with his ex-wife the mother of his 3 children. We have one son together and I also have one without him. Which I dont talk to my ex at all.. Just bout our son, I never see him or nothing.
Anyways..
It has been a while since I have been on here. I am back to working full time and with DH in school it makes it hard to juggle all. BM had been somewhat quiet for a while now so I didn't really have much to vent about anyway. Well, that all changed today.
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