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My idiot husband....

sunshine's picture

So me and the husband were out christmas shopping a few days before christmas.

He tells me that he wants to get my oldest daughter who is 15 and my youngest step daughter who is also 15 a mini labtop and that they could use them in school.

I told him I was very uncomfortable with providing them with that given the details that SD likes chatting with every tom d*ck and harry online and how my daughter is never on the computer.

So we buy them both a mini labtop.

I'm done...It's over and I'm leaving

lil_teapot's picture

We had a super fabulous New Years, but things have gotten progressively worse. I can't even tell you how bad it was the last couple of days, but the low point was Saturday night when I fled our home in sub-zero temps with no coat or shoes, and was lucky to even have car keys to flee with. FH has changed and not for the better. I think he's taking drugs because I've seen this peculiar look in him before...pale, pale skin and tiny little pupils. I don't know if it's drunk or drugs, but something was quite wrong.

Ungrateful SKIDS

sunshine's picture

SD20 came home from college,,, On Christmas Eve we (me, husband, my 2bD's and 2 Sd's) are at my brothers house for dinner.

2 SD's tell my husband they are going to wal mart to pick granny (MIL) something up for Christmas,,, BULLCRAP walmart closed at 6 and this was 7:30.

Later, me, husband and my 2 BD's go home to prepare for Christmas.

I have my girls get ready for bed. Meantime I am exhausted but knew I had gifts to wrap. Well at 11:00 p.m. I asked husband, where is SD's? He starts calling them both on their cell phones and they have them turned off.

The All Mighty Buck!

Chel Bell's picture

Update on my parents fight over CS &college $$ for my 2 younger brothers.UGGH! My mom took my advice, and before proceeding with the lawyer she found, she went to the court house herself, and got her divorce decree on her own, to see what it said about their current situation.Of course she did not entirely forget, but needs it to proceed in getting the $$ from my dad. Well it does state that he is supposed to pay CS till the age of 23, as long as the boys are in college, and also half of their college education!!!

BM's plan to pay BF back with his own money

Nymh's picture

BF loaned the money to BM and she has already paid part of it back, but won't be able to pay the rest as soon as she thought. Apparently her decision to have the child support payments sent through the state have come back to bite her in the butt again. BF paid more than he was supposed to (as he almost always does) and she was counting on that check to pay him back what he loaned to her. Well, instead of paying her the whole amount, the state decided to send her what she was supposed to get - about $150 less. She called BF upset, thinking he had lied to her about the amout he sent.

Clingy BM proclaims her love for my boyfriend!! What nerve!

Hopeful378's picture

Tonight my boyfriend called his kids to say, "hi." He had his son on speakerphone so I could be included too. While he was talking to his oldest (10yrs) his ex says in the background, "I wanna talk to your dad.." My boyfriend said, "Tell your mom to email me." My boyfriend has set some bondaries with her due to her flipping out all the time, and tries hard to only communicate about the boys with her.

Update!! BM influences skids to make ultimatum... "Choose us or your girlfriend!!.

Hopeful378's picture

Things were quite stressful this weekend for me. I thought that I was "ruining" my boyfriend's relationship with his sons, due to the influence of his crazy ex...

Well, his oldest (10yrs) called and appologized for saying he didn't want to talk to my boyfriend anymore until he chooses who is more important... I was surprised and thankful that SS10 called.

Thanks for all of your support of "hang in there!" It really helped to read your stories.

UGHHHHH!!!!!!!!!!!

melis070179's picture

Thats really all I can say right now. I'm sure every single person on this site can relate to that feeling! MIL already asking for us to come visit this summer...everyone in the family. Thats really only 9-10 people...but thats 9-10 people in a small 3 bedroom house, for AN ENTIRE WEEK. WTH. So far away yet too damn soon! I hate being away from my own house...in an uncomfortable bed...in a noisy crazy house...with my baby...in a podunk town with literally NOTHING to do besides go to Walmart. Sounds great!

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