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BM insisted on having FSS 11 months for Halloween to take him trick or treating. Whatever. So BF agreed to pick him up at his parents house at a later time instead of the usual pickup place at the usual time. So BF gets his son and his is asleep at 7pm, making those little hiccup noises kids make after they have cried hysterically for a while. Grandma woke baby up to see him and BF changed him into his sleeper and changed his diaper too. The diaper was soaked - like slept in sovernight soaked or not been changed all day soaked. Even the waistband of his pants was wet. GROSS!
This is my first blog-and it's probably going to be waaay too long. But here goes.
Tonite is my oldest sons' birthday. He's grown now. I don't know where he is. I don't know his phone number. I only know that he drives truck for someone somewhere in Colorado.
the insanity continues over stupid halloween.
My poor DH got to have a 40 minute fight in front of the elementary school with BM this morning. So much wrong I can't even put it all down.
The biggest thing right now is that she's told my DH again and again that its OK for her to share her thoughts and feelings about him and me to the girls. She feels that this will make them more empathetic people.
So last night, DH and I are just finishing dinner, and his cell rings. He answers, starts answering questions cryptically (he was using military lingo) and then he kept trying to get off of the phone... so I KNEW who it was.
I asked him, what did she want? and why the code talk? he said she was calling about the skids, and then asked a question about what letters mean in the military... like C is Charlie.
So BF and I are working on his response to send the court regading BM's motion. FMIL has always been a great person to bounce stuff off of and have read stuff and correct stuff and add stuff. This time is no exception. BUT, BF adopted my daughter last spring and BM knows he has a daughter. She does not know she is not blood and neither of us finds this information relevant to anything regarding BM. I have had FMIL check over stuff for us and each time she changes half-sister to adopted sister. Am I wrong to be annoyed?
I have never seen a tv show or movie with an accurate portrayal of what step life is really like. It is the hardest thing a woman will ever do. Kids are mean, birth moms are idiots, and most husbands look the other way. All the while step mom is trying with all her might to make it work. Step moms are so under rated...... Cant someone speak up for us good step moms in the world that only want everyone to get along and be happy. I feel so invisible!
I guess this my Ex's latest plan. His current GF, that he has been seeing for about a year, is here in this country illegally. Her brother was in an accident that has left him unable to care for himself....he is a vegetative state. The accident I was told is why she is still in this country. She helps to care for him. My kids have been telling me now that their dad might marry her to keep her here, as they worry some times about her being deported. My Ex has mentioned it before not to long ago, but I did not know he was saying that to the kids, or if that is the reason.
This seems to be the running theme in everyone's posts lately...H's and BF's who have no b*lls. It seems that everyone keeps talking about problems with the BM and the skids...and it all seems to stem from these guys NOT standing up, growing a backbone, and laying down some law and order.
So, I had just told a coworker that I was pregnant (literally just now at lunch) and she asked where the new baby would be sleeping. I explained that the skids were going to share a room, and the baby would get the other. She knows the skids are a boy and a girl. Here is how the convo went
What was the reason for your husband's & the BM's breakup? Who initiated it & has the BM moved on?
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