Well, it looks like we are moving forward for custody, thanks to SD14s grandfather (yep, the BM's dad!) funding the custody suit. The grandfather came over last night and we discussed options for lawyers, and decided to go with the lawyer that handled the grandfather's divorce. Apparently the BM gets a lot of her irrational, unstoppable anger rage from HER mother, and this lawyer managed to get her to sit civilly and talk through the divorce, so maybe it'll work with BM too with regard to custody of SD.

So after the drama of the holiday pick up fiasco. I am wondering why every pair of pants and jeans she (BM) sent sd5 are too dang small.

Who the heck does that? Who sends there kids with clothes that are too small. Not only are they way too short - about 2 inches too short. They are almost too tight as well.

I take pride in what bd wears. They don't have to be name brand, but they dang sure have to fit.

Here's an update, skids were with BM for Christmas - had a great holiday. They came back on Monday. I disengaged with SD and told her not to ask me for anything anymore - needless to say she still felt compelled to place her order for what she wanted from me for Christmas. I kept my word and did not purchase any gifts for the skids. (I feel bad that SS missed out, but I H would have been real upset and it would be obvious if I bought for SS and not for SD). On Monday SD came in being so nice - she was just sure I filled her order.

I haven't been on in a while, but it is so wonderful to see all the new faces and the originals! Where to start... My husbands ex has moved into the SAME Subdivision that I/We live in and she ALSO LIVES ON THE SAME FREAKING STREET as me!!!!!!!!! I just found this out a couple of days ago but my dearly beloved ass*&^% husband has known for some time now!! I am so mad that I could punch the both of them. I feel as if I am in a bad episode on the Lifetime Channel. Things have been pretty bad around the home front here with the SS and my husband.