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My DH & I have been together now for 41/2 years, but he had his first major "step" moment this christmas, while my kids were here. My DH got a nice christmas bonus from work, $$ to put towards buying a new flat screen t.v. We have been wanting one for a while, and the tv we had was very , very old. So this was a wonderful surprise.
I found a forum site called Popps (partnered of paying parents support)
its on yahoo.
It's linked to site called Dads on air..... a lot of people on there with great discussions.
I mentioned in my last blog how SD15 treated me all through this Xmas and New Years. I've not been on speaking terms with her.
This whole past week and a half has been a blur. On Xmas Eve we went to my sister-in-law's house for her annual party. SD15 made deserts, etc. I helped her make them because she asked for my help. I carried her deserts in the house for her because she couldn't reach them on her side of the car. I greeted my SIL (DH's brother's wife) Merry Xmas. I asked SD15 where she wanted the deserts, upstairs near the kitchen or the family room where the party was set up.
My SD12 is the laziest, most spoiled rotten girl I know! So far for Christmas break, she got to go to Chicago for a week and stay at the Four Seasons, shop and eat out at expensive restaurants. She got home and went skiing practically every day (at $60 a pop!), stayed up until dawn on New Year's Eve, and laid in bed in between. She has had no responsibilites around the house and hasn't even cleaned up dirty dishes in her room. She lost her ski jacket and cell phone, which BM ran out and got new ones without punishment or trying to find them.
I was talking to my daughter tonight and she is four and she asked when she was going to the dentist? I told her it would be this month and started to tell her that the dentist she goes to is the dentist I had as a child. All of a sudden my SS 6 busts out and says "i used to go to my mom's dentist but I dont anymore, i go to (and he named somewhere)" then he repeated himself two more times.
Lately he has been doing things like that. If I say I used to do this with such and such He would come out and say 'My mom did that when and such and such."
Ugh!! I need advice, I'm frustrated & sad. My boyfriend's two sons currently live with their BM several states away. She cheated on my boyfriend while they were married, divorced him & married the guy she cheated with. That was over 4 years ago...
I've been dating my boyfriend for close to a year now. BM has tried to get my boyfriend back since she divorced him. And, she's tried to break us up almost the entire time we've been dating so she could get him back. My boyfriend is not interested in ever taking her back and has told her this. But, it doesn't stop her...
Just like to say that I am really glad that I found this site. I knew that I wasn't the only person in this world feeling like I want to pull my hair out. I have 2 sd's and these children are (in my opinion....MINE) and I am soooo sick and tired of hearing that I am just the step mom...and have no real opinion in anything that goes on. Their bm passed away almost 3 years ago..and we have been fighting the bio grandmother for 2 and a half years. Its been a NIGHTMARE....am I alone in that or is there anyone else out there in a similar situation??
I am new to this site. It was great to find. I have 4 children of my own from a previous marriage, all but one who is 17 ( the baby) is on their own. My husband has a son 15 who lives with his mom. My husband has been divorced for 5 years and we have been married for 2 years. This christmas my step son came with a wrapped gift for my husbands parents. We asked his son what what in the box. His son told us it was pictures of him.
I am a teacher and have breaks off of school so on my DHs days with his son I watch him when he has no school. I have no idea where he goes when she has him. She works at a school but not a teacher so she has to work the breaks but get out early at 2 instead of 3:30 so she picked him up from my house that I built with DH whom she is still in love with. She did not want to pick him up from me but if not she would have to wait until 5:30 for DH to bring him to her house. So my DH calls me and tells me she called him and to have my 4 year old SS out in the driveway waiting for her.