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I am so glad it's over-never viewed Christmas as torture before, but it was miserable. Thank God my son was here.
H shows up Christmas Eve, tired of course-but after the Christmas Eve phone call to me bitching me out yet again, I was not happy to see him.
Christmas morning H & SD17 go to get his mom-because my son was still at his dads (I'm so glad-H was going to try to get my son to do it!).
Ok so, Christmas basically SUCKED BIG time!
I guess I'll start where I left off. DH p/u all the kids from my dads and "talked" to SD about her attitude on the way home. She was nasty and made all kinds of crappy remarks. Nothing unusual right? So, he had to stop at the grocery store and left her in the truck to "think" about if she wanted to move back in w/sugarmama and to have her decision made by the time he came back.
so the holidays have come and gone. all i can say is i am so very thankful that we are leaving late tonite to drive to PA to see MY family and be around normal people!
I need to know if you ladies find this disrespectful?? We were In BF's brothers house for Xmas Eve and we were sitting at the table playing cards. Well Bf's sister in law said something that I found funny and most of the time it is funny. But BF doesnt like his sister in law too much. He has a different view than I do about her. Well anyway I laughed at a joke that she made and he said in front of her and his brother, with the most serious face "why do i have to laugh at everything she does"? I looked at him and told him why is it not funny because it was towards you?
I know I was saying "somebody please shoot me" regarding this trip - yep, insanity. Even with people changing schedules and making alternate arrangements, we have 9 people and 2 dogs in a small 3-br house.
Long story short, I've been with BF for 4 years now and only the last two BM and been buying, b'day, fathers day and christmas presants on behalf of the skids to BF. (Before you ask, yes I was buying gifts from the skids to BF and actually had to return some cause BM started to get in before me, anyway so I stopped buying presants). On Christmas eve, BM asked BF where her presant is from the skids and BF laughed and said that he hasn't done that for the lsat 4 years, her come back was "well I havn't been causing you guys any trouble" WTF???
so my husband hurrys me out the door today so we can hurry and pick up SS. When we get to his house he walks out the door and his mom followed with a big bag of presents! WHAT???? He gets in the car and she says "these are presents from SS" they were for my in laws. hes 6 and he did not get them from school (the santa shop or some thing like that) All the presents I wrapped were from both the kids and there names were on the presents together. I never single SS or my daughter out of anything. I was so mad that they were really from SS mother and the gifts only had SS name on it.
My H found out from our attorney that he is only defending himself in the custody issue that was filed by pathological liar BM. He told him that if the evidence is untrue (which is) then she would pay our attorney fees but shared parenting plan would stay the same. In Ohio, you have to file physical and psychological harm for custody. Hello?? If I thought my own children were in danger from their BD, they wouldn't be back until the court issue was done!
The holidays have been especially stressful this time of year. BM drops by the in-laws house every now and then. She brought SD there to see the grandparents. SD was sick on Thanksgiving so DH told her that we'd skip visitation. This was negated by stupid MIL calling BM and telling her to come over because she made SD's favorite dish. BM even called MIL asking how to cook a few of her recipes! Then, MIL/FIL asked BM if they could take SD to their holiday xmas party. It's like one after the other.
Just wanted to tell everyone here Merry Christmas!!!
Positive thoughts are with you all in your skids exchanges this season and I hope for the same on our end!