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Itwillgetbetter's picture

I need to know if you ladies find this disrespectful?? We were In BF's brothers house for Xmas Eve and we were sitting at the table playing cards. Well Bf's sister in law said something that I found funny and most of the time it is funny. But BF doesnt like his sister in law too much. He has a different view than I do about her. Well anyway I laughed at a joke that she made and he said in front of her and his brother, with the most serious face "why do i have to laugh at everything she does"? I looked at him and told him why is it not funny because it was towards you? And he said no its not that. I just couldnt believe the way that he put me ion the spot in front of them. I felt so stupid... HIS BM used to do this to him in front of his family all the time. And I feel that to make hiself feel better hes doing it to me... Was this wrong?

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SerendipitySM's picture

It was absolutely wrong of him to do this - he was trying to deliberately embarrass you in front of his family. I would tell him that he is to never do that again or you will no longer attend his family get togethers.

Inside every cynical person, there is a disappointed idealist. - George Carlin

Itwillgetbetter's picture

I know that everyone likes to joke around you know but there are certain things that you just shouldnt do. I would NEVER have done that to him in front of my family. I just felt so stupid...

disgusted's picture

That was totally rude and uncalled for! I agree with serendipity I would have a serious talk with him and tell him that if he ever treats me like that infront of his family again he will be attending his family functions alone!

In a perfect world their would be retroactive abortion capabilities. ~ disgusted