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SS5 use to be so polite, say thank you, welcome, ask nicely for things, sit properly. Now he annoys the hell out of me. He sits half off the chair and you have to tell him to sit right b/c all of his food ends up on the floor. He farts and burps at the table. Gets yelled at and 10 mins later does again. We recycle and have 2 big blue trashcans outside, he was drinking a rootbeer and threw into the can and missed and walked in the house and I said what do you think you are doing?! He said what? I told him he needed to go pick it up. All these small things that are now adding up.
I'm a girlscout leader with FMIL have been for over a year, both girls mine and FH are in scouts. They get prizes for selling cookies and when it came time to pass out the prizes FMIL gave ME FSD movie tickets because BM never in the past 3 years used them. FMIL told FSD that she was giving them to me because she knew I would take her, I even pinky swore that I would. FSD was fine with it, it was her idea to pinky swear.
We didn't have the skids all weekend, but had them last night - the first time since Mother's Day. We always ask the skids how their weekend was and they tell us all the things they did. Of course, SD5 tells us all about Mother's Day, which I expected to hear all about. I heard all about how Grandma (BM's mom) took them to the flower store and they bought all kinds of flowers for BM, etc, etc. We listened quietly and gave our polite "uh-huh's".
Boyfriend's ex has refused to allow him access to his children since early march when she lost a court case where she was trying to get more money.
Hey ive only just got round to setting up an account but have been reading some of the blogs on here for a while now and can really relate to a lot of things people say. Been with my bf for 2yrs now and he's got a 5yr old daughter from previous relationship...(his ex had 2 kids when he met her and she tricked him into having a baby...she told him she couldnt have anymore kids...she then got pregnant and has also had 2 more kids since with a diff guy!!)
I have noticed that SD11 gets really clingy when she stays home more. When she goes to school a whole week, it does not seem as bad. I mean, what do you do when your BF won't spend time with both of his kids? It is not even me really. His son tells me he wants to spend more time with his dad but that he feels like a third wheel when he is with his Dad and his sister. BF says that he does not connect with his son, that his daughter is more like him. Ya know, it breaks my heart to see this keep happening. SD11 had her birthday in April. We had a big party for her on the weekend after.
i want to put this question out there... which Step mum is the happiest?
1. is it the step mum that does all the "mum" chores? the ones that do the school runs, cooking cleaning, homework, sporting events etc?
or
2. The step mum that does not get involved? that does nothing with or for the skids?
So after a crazy few weeks with SS I am just ready to give up and leave...
Would someone please tell me why we had to cancel our romantic weekend, dinner at our favorite restaurant and alone time before my husband leaves on an extended business trip? Oh yeah...that's right. Because Mother of the Year is a selfish, self-serving, irresponsible POS.....that's why.
She texts DH on Thursday (before MD Weekend) and tells DH she's dropping their kid off at 7pm. When he texts her back, reminding her it's MD weekend and that supersedes the EOW schedule, he received this response.....
I've been trying to come up with a good one but I'm not having much luck. Maybe a more creative person could help me out, lol.
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