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SS10 is attached to my DH's ass

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My SS10 is literally attached to my husband. And he for the most part isn't bothered by the fact that his son just stands behind him. It annoys the hell out of me ESP when DH tries to talk to me and then all of the sudden SS10 has 10 million things to say! Or that DH will want to discuss something that I feel is NONE of skids business. SS13 is not like and never really has been. He is even annoyed with SS10! Literally Monday couldn't have come fast enough for them to go home. SS10 stood behind DH while he did dishes the other night just standing there.

SS10 is attached to my DH's ass

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My SS10 is literally attached to my husband. And he for the most part isn't bothered by the fact that his son just stands behind him. It annoys the hell out of me ESP when DH tries to talk to me and then all of the sudden SS10 has 10 million things to say! Or that DH will want to discuss something that I feel is NONE of skids business. SS13 is not like and never really has been. He is even annoyed with SS10! Literally Monday couldn't have come fast enough for them to go home. SS10 stood behind DH while he did dishes the other night just standing there.

Who do you consider your family?

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So when asked about my family, I say I have a husband and 1 son. Its the truth. I never mention my skids. We have them 40% of the time and frankly its just not my 'family'. If they are brought up, I make it clear they are not mine and only DS's HALF siblings. I know this can sound harsh but at the end of the day, my concern/focus/worry is my son and husband. Am I alone in this? Even my husband has left it as just the 3 of us. We have discussed and he will say but we are a family of 5. Well to him we are, but to me we are a family of 3.

My future....scary to think about it

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It has been years since I've been on here as I felt I needed to step away. But now I feel that I have NO where to turn. My DH have been together for 7.5 years now and also now have a DS2 who is my world. I am a stay at home luckily. But I am too the point of disgust with my SS13 & SS9. I don't like them at my house, I prefer for them to not interact with my DS, I just enjoy life when they are not involved and when they come around, I am MISERABLE. It sounds horrible but its true!!

My future....scary to think about it

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It has been years since I've been on here as I felt I needed to step away. But now I feel that I have NO where to turn. My DH have been together for 7.5 years now and also now have a DS2 who is my world. I am a stay at home luckily. But I am too the point of disgust with my SS13 & SS9. I don't like them at my house, I prefer for them to not interact with my DS, I just enjoy life when they are not involved and when they come around, I am MISERABLE. It sounds horrible but its true!!

Jealously issues driving me crazy

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I am not a jealous person so its hard for me comprehend jealous, controlling thoughts or urges. DH & I have a near perfect life when skids are not there, but when they come, we both become more short tempered and affectionate starts to lack. Once its just us, DH is all over me, showering with kisses, I love you's, hugs etc. He still does when skids are around, HOWEVER, they have to intruppt or say "but daddy I love you" and want a hug right then and there. I always step aside b/c unlike me, they dont see him everyday and I dont want to stand in the way of their time or affection.

BM Vent - She annoys the hell out of me

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SS9 needs braces and a lot of work. He has been to the dentist about 7 times in the past 4 mos doing all the prep work. Today was the day, where they discuss the cost and timeline. We carry the insurance for the skids. And BM said she was going to add them to her insurnace so they have double coverage and eliminates co-pays, BUT never did. So its going to cost $1800 out of pocket for phase one and phase two isnt covering but thats about 18-20 mos away.

"It's my birthday and I can do what I want..."

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SS just turned 9 this wkd. For his b-day, he had a sleepover, then we took him with my bro's kids to play mini golf and dinner. BM again did not have a birthday party for him or SS5. SS9 was such a brat, I wanted to say its b/c it was his birthday and we heard multiple times that it was his b-day and he could do what he wanted. Because of MY family, SS9 made over $120 just off of them.

"Well Mommy can do it"

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Okay so on top of SS5 losing his manners, I'm flat out tired of him telling me Mommy can do this or that. I watch SS5 one night a wk while SS8 and DH are at Boy Scouts. So SS5 starts asking me questions. He asked why I have a the type of dog I do (BM bought a dog after the boys went home and always talked about my dog). So not thinking anything of it, I said b/c he's the best kind of dog to have, he protects us, he's lovable, he listens, etc. So then he asks me why I drive the car I do (I drive a nice sports car, BM drives a clunker).

Mannerless SS5 - grrrr!

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SS5 use to be so polite, say thank you, welcome, ask nicely for things, sit properly. Now he annoys the hell out of me. He sits half off the chair and you have to tell him to sit right b/c all of his food ends up on the floor. He farts and burps at the table. Gets yelled at and 10 mins later does again. We recycle and have 2 big blue trashcans outside, he was drinking a rootbeer and threw into the can and missed and walked in the house and I said what do you think you are doing?! He said what? I told him he needed to go pick it up. All these small things that are now adding up.

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