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Should i just admit defeat and let SD10 win

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As per previous blog SD10 is a little asshole, she is nasty and spiteful and tells me she prefers living at our house when i am not there, she lies she hits the boys SS13 and BS12, she is just a constant nightmare, she is always in a foul mood and abusive. She basically just treats everyone like shit, especially me. However she talks to her own mother like shit and talks to her mothers boyfriend like shit... but she sucks up DH's ass. However i can deal with her if DH actaully did something about it. HE DOES NOTHING.!!!!!!!

What do i do about SD10

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I am so sick of her shit, i need advice on how to handle this situation and will make my blog as quick as possible to explain.
SD10 is a nasty selfish little girl, she lies so badly that i think she actually believes herself. She could do something right in front of you and look you in the eye and insist that she didnt and then carry on as if i am the idiot with the problem, she says "yep whatever, always me" "Yep thats right i am a retard".
When she gets asked to pick up her mess she has a right hissy fit and says "but i didnt have it" or "i didnt do it"

I left my husband but now i am back

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and hopefully things will start working out again, however i am having serious doubts already as i have only been home 1 week and his kids are due to come today for the weekend and i am dreading it. He has told me shit is going to change around the house, the kids have been spoken to about respect and have been told to stop being lazy little bastards. The reason i left in the first place was due to kids bullshit and hubbys inability to see past it.

Hubby never says no to BM

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I am so sick of it all, For the past 5 years we have had to deal with BM crap, she is constantly changing custody days, or sending the kids over with orders from her.

Once again the BM has doubled up weekends (with us) for the kids so she can swap her weekends YET AGAIN. We had them last weekend and therefore should have them every second weekend. But no she sent a text to SS13 telling him to tell hubby they are staying again this weekend.

Stepkids are disgusting pigs

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I cant stand it anymore, they are honestly the most disgusting kids i have ever come across. They leave food and drinks and empty wrappers all over the house. They even just stuff chip packets and empty drink cartons under the bed or in the lounge cushions. They eat ALL day. i find it truly horrible that they eat constantly and they only ever eat shit food. I have taken to hiding food as to avoid another grocery shop after only 2 days of having them. SS13 is nearly 95kg. He is just gross. They never brush their teeth.

SD gets her way as usual

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As per previous blog SD is bad at BM house so daddy comes and saves her. Yay for me because now she is staying with us for a few days because she needs a break from her mother. SD is 10 and she needs discipline because she is little bitch at BM (still not my problem).

So instead of getting the discipline she needs by BM DH just bails her out. I am so fucking sick of it. Now i get her at home with me as well as SS13 because he came along for the ride. I get to look after them and drive them places, BM gets a week off with CS pay.

SD is bad at BM house so she call DH

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Sequel to my previous blog about Karma - I cant stand it anymore, SD10 is being a real little shit at BM house, calls BM slut, mole etc etc, she has sent text to BM saying "i hate you fucken cont" (her spelling) and yet she doesnt behave like that at our house. The problem is this kid has absolutely no boundary's for eg, after sending that text from her phone at our house SD calls BM and says i am out of credit, BM then drives around to our house to give her more !!! :?

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