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BM has lost her mind

shellbell's picture

I'm a girlscout leader with FMIL have been for over a year, both girls mine and FH are in scouts. They get prizes for selling cookies and when it came time to pass out the prizes FMIL gave ME FSD movie tickets because BM never in the past 3 years used them. FMIL told FSD that she was giving them to me because she knew I would take her, I even pinky swore that I would. FSD was fine with it, it was her idea to pinky swear. Anyway later that night FMIL called FH and tells him she got a call from bm wanting to know why I TOOK the movie tickets FMIL told her she gave them to me I didn't take them. So BM continues to throw a baby fit so FMIL tells her she has them she took them back from me. She was just trying to get her to shut up. Them bm's fine with it she was only mad because I had them but when she thought FMIL had them she didn't care. A few weeks went by and the girls and I went to a movie (I had to wait for our weekend). I knew Bm was going to be pissed when she found out I actually had the tickets and FMIL never took them back, I don't care. Last wednesday FH called me, he was at FSS's ball practice, FMIL showed up and told him BM had called the girlscout office and told them that I STOLE the movie tickets from FSD, they called FMIL and told her and she reasured them it was a lie, and apparently BM took FSD out of girlscouts and didn't even tell her. FMIL went off on BM there at the ball field she told her if she's trying to keep FH from marrying me it wont work and I guess BM just gave her this puppy dog look, I cannot believe she actually thought getting me in trouble by lying would get FH to end things, like he didn't know the truth, she's a nut job. FMIL told her she needs to grow up and that she hasn't done anything this stupid since she posted nude pictures of herself on the internet.
I always miss the good stuff.

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HennyPen's picture

sounds like your FMIL is awesome!...lol...I wish mine would stand up to BM just once like that. I'd pay money to see it! good for you! Biggrin

shellbell's picture

The only bad thing is now that FMIL let her have it BM won't let the kids go to her house, and FSS's 13 b-day is this weekend and he was supposed to have a sleep over a FMIL (we don't have them that weekend) BM made him cancel his party, so we let him have a sleep over last weekend. She's an idiot taking it out on the kids because she did somthing stupid, I swear I would never treat my kids or anyone else's like that.

HennyPen's picture

it's sad for the kids when they get used as a tool like that. It's unfair to the kids. and he (SS), I am sure, is quite aware who is doing the manipulating. I guess she can't see the hurt she is causing them due to her spitefulness. I just hate BM's like that.

shellbell's picture

I don't understand it either, we try to do what we can to make it a little easier on them. We are getting married in a little over two weeks and if things work out we'll take a little honeymoon and the kids will get to stay with FMIL. BM is a horrible person she has always tried to drive a wedge between FH and the kids, and he is a wonderful dad he goes to all the ball games and practices and all the cubscout/boyscout meetings and campouts and yet she tries to make it like he isn't there for them. She just plain sucks.