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BM lets SD have a FB....

luckykell's picture

I know we've had this post several times; unfortunately I think our situation is taking the cake! SD is 5 years old!!! And psycho-cow BM thinks it's okay for a 5 year old child to have a FB account!! :jawdrop: This kid can't even read or write anything more than the alphabet...what in the heck does she need a FB for? BM says its so she can play all the games (farmville, cafe world, petville). Cool, those games are kid friendly, FDH knew this and set a Petville game up for her under HIS account. So she would only play it with him, and she didn't have access to anything else.

Wanting To Get Back To A Healthy Place...Any Advice?

CrystalRE's picture

We have been dealing with a huge assortment of drama from BM for over 4 years now. All of this drama has caused a lot of turmoil in my home from problems with DH to problems with SK's and even problems with my biodaughter. We have finally gotten to a point where things are good between DH and I and have managed to keep my biodaughter fairly protected from the aftermath. One problem still remains...the step daughters 6 and 10.

Thank God ST is Back

Fading's picture

I was beginning to go through withdrawls I think. I've had some MAJOR issues and of course, no one to talk to! We got our puppy about 2 weeks ago and he's terrific, such a good little boy. But SD on the other hand is still an unholy terror! She's been abusing the pup every chance she gets. She steals all his toys and hides them, chokes him, throws him and I am pretty sure she hurt his leg the other day because he won't walk on it at all today. (I am taking him to the vet today) I'm thinking this happened when I caught her HANGING him UPSIDE DOWN by his rear legs...

Jonesing for some Stalker time!!!! and ....the Skid has not learned a thing.

Rags's picture

I have been in Qatar for a month now and have been going through wife, Skid and Stalker withdrawals.

Thanks for getting the site up and running again so us Stalker junkies can get our vent on.

You may recall that my SS had recently received his first 6wk Report Card and was on the honor role.

Well, meanwhile 4 wks later and back at the ranch ..........

getting up to speed since last blog

cruder's picture

Hi there, so its been a few months since the 'brat is back' blog. Well, theres been phases of it. Up and down. Ultimately Its school (and oh...having to like...work..and..pay attention) thats the real problem for SS. He has fairly bad Learning Disabilities (LD), and seemingly has such low motivation that it smells like low self-esteem (or maybe depression). My partner reminds me that 'Im not a doctor' so i should shut up and watch as he maybe never gets the help he needs...... But, the kid, he just can't see/sense how good hes actually got it - and how much worse it could be.

Was just told by 11 yo SD to "Get over it!"

fedupstepdad's picture

And I am beyond livid...because once again DW did NOT back me up and let her say this without being punished...then had the NERVE to say it was my fault...IN FRONT OF SD! Therapy has been working very well and I was warned there would be lapses but my patience is running thin...very thin...

Bm claiming abuse.

ohxitsxapril's picture

its supposed to be dh's weekend with SD6. Traffic was bad so he texted her at 5:30 saying he would be late (pick up is at 6-meet at a halfway point, we live 100ish miles from them) she said "well my lawyer advised me not to come call your lawyer" he was like wtf, thank God his lawyer was in so he called him and his lawyer told him that she is claiming abuse. he said something like he didnt know if it was sexual or not, but he would call her lawyer on monday and find out more and let him know. Stupida** BM wasnt even gonna tell him, we would of shown up at 6 and be like wtf???

HELP!!!!!!!

tabflag's picture

I am not one to reach out to strangers for help when it comes to raising my family. I have been with my husband for six years (married for two of them). He has a daughter from a previous relationship that he has been raising on his own since she was a couple months old (of course until I came along). When we were first together she seemed to love me pretty well. She loved it when I would come over, and never did the my daddy thing. We used to do all sorts of things together. Then about three years ago things started to take a turn for the worse.

When Husband and his son moved in. How do I get over the hurt?

mnlover2010's picture

I met my DH in Feb. of 2009. I had my own place 3 bedroom 1 bathroom house. He stayed a couple of nights and would go back home to his families house since he just moved back from New York. In March of 2009 I met his son who just turned 2 in 2010. My Dh ad his son started staying with me in April. In my house, in the first bedroom I had it step up as a childs room, crib, bresser, changing table, extra bed. My DH took his son and stayed out on the living room floor. In May my lease was up and we moved to a 2 bedroom 2 bathroom apartment.

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