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I have posted a number of times about the totally dysfunctional and unhealthy way of interacting that FH and BM have. Their relationship makes me very sad for FH and feel so much anger towards BM. She was/is psychologically abusive to him, she manipulates him constantly, he does whatever/whenever she asks (though she treats him like sh-- before, during, and after). He bends over backward to appease her and he demonstrates so much fear in the face of her....
I was asked what my title was at work today and I don't really know. LOL I work for a major farm equipment/residential equipment dealership. I order/inventory all the complete goods (everything but parts)for 10 locations. I also am in charge of HR at this location, order office supplies at this location, make all travel arrangements for all 10 stores, all administrative assistant duties at this location, assistant the owner with any sales he makes (do the contracts and all associated paperwork and collect fees).
So just wanted to let you guys know that I just ordered the book off line. Does anyone have this book already that can give me a little insight as to what they guy talks about?
So, I'm currently dating a man that I dated for 2 years in the past my "first love" we been seperated for over 2 years but remained friends, in the two years he had a child by another women. They had no relationship prior to her getting pregnant other then they has sex. anyhow we go back together and his daughter is one. I'm having many and many doubts how to go about the situation. I've never seen her in person thus far. Were "in love" again! and it's getting serious and I think it's about that time I meet her! but I'm nervous not sure what to do, how to act and so on!
My DH and I have been together for over 20 years and he has a daughter who is 16. She was living in a different country with her mother and just 3 years ago, we decided to have her come live with us. Throughout all this time that she was not living with us, we made sure that we visited her at least 6 times for the year and we have continually supported her financially over the years.
So, is there ANY occassion when drama can just stay in check and out of the picture??? I mean.. is there nothing sacred?
This past weekend was filled w/DRAMA.. all by BM and her DH. Skids being dragged into adult scheduling issues and brought to tears.
Well BM served us this morning seeking to change the CO of SD14. 8:00 AM and the Sheriff's dept was in the driveway. Told him we were expecting it. SD14 announced that she no longer wanted to live here. He told me his own kids put him through the same thing. He stopped fighting it and now no longer sees his kids. Told me to tell DH you can keep fighting, but in the end, it won't matter. His comment as let her live with mom and when she cries to come back in a month, tell her no "she made this bed, go lie in it". I agree with him.
I was just now being nosey on FB...I have Chapoopa's password and can get on to his. He has no idea about this....and it will remain that way. But I see on there where his POS BM better known as PsychoSponge has posted "Job Hunting......Joy" She has not had a effin job in over 2 months!!! WTF??? And how exactly is she job hunting when she is on FB 24/7???? I am really glad that DH busts his ass so that bitch can sit at home and do whatever the hell it is she does all day long!!! I mean seriously???
My SD, 6 was in trouble last night for arguing with her sister. While we were talking to her about her punishment she told me that she "cries in the night" because she misses her mom. She also said that her sister (10) comes in to her room to comfort her and bring her a tissue. Is this something we should be asking her sister about? Has anyone ever experienced this and if so what steps did you take to comfort her? Or did you ignore it? DH and I have never actually saw her crying about missing her mom.
Good lord the drama goes on ...
Honestly, things have been quiet between DH and BM for a while now. Every couple of months there is a flare up but it all settles back down.
Well it must be that time again ...
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