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Mr. Kate and I had several big fights over him allowing his daughter (10 y/o) to sleep in our room...among the things Mr. Kate has said in these fights were... "you're making me choose between you and her (and if I have to, I'll choose her)", yada yada yada...
Well, Saturday night...FSD10 is in our room...I get on the computer and notice that Mr. Kate has been looking at porn for about the last half hour.
I'm not going to 'do the business' anywhere but the bedroom. He knows this.
I've been noticing lately I have 2 co workers who are in there late 20's both still live at home with mom and dad. They both complain about their parents but neither will move on their own. Both make over 35k a year but both claim that they can't afford to move out. I know for a fact both blow their money on themselves. Ok that's none of my business but my question is where did we go wrong? When did it become acceptable to freeload off parents when this generation is pushing 30 years of age?
Keeping this short cause I'm typing from my phone, but just wanted to share a good s-kid moment.
Sd8 called today to let us know when shed be arriving for the week, and told her dad she was making me a bracelet as a surprise 
Shes awfully sweet sometimes! Well, often really. It's her week off school and I am actually looking forward to it. Here's hoping everyone has a good week!
Last night the kids and I were sitting in the livingroom watching a movie. DH was sitting at the table looking at the paper and sort of watching the movie at the same time. He wasn't really into it, it was a kids movie. Anyway BD (2) was running out to see him with a bowl of popcorn when she spilled it. DH said "oh oh, there's a big mess here for you to clean up".
I need some help,
I am going to domestics on Thursday of this week.
I have been paying child support for my two kids for the last 6 years. My Daughter just turnes 18 so I am going back to DR to get it reduced for just one child.
My question is...for the last 12 months my boy has been put at a full-time boy behavior camp. he was sent there by the courts because of behavior problems, Drugs, stealing etc.
Loghead sent his son, PITA 15, to live with his grandparents back in May for some things he said and did to me. IT was VERY ugly and hateful!
Loghead was very supportive of it all, and told PITA he could not return home until he made amends and attempted a better attitude towards me and the son Loghead and I have together. I'm at a point right now, where I don't want to be around that kid at all...
So how exactly did Loghead think I would react when I came home from my mini-vacation with my SD to find PITA was here?
and the advice she gave has stayed with me thru my life
1.Don't ever give up on trying to look nice,you never know when you'll be single
2.Keep a stash of money,enough that you can leave at any given time.
3.Screw me once shame on you,screw me twice shame on me.
My granny was a realist see?
As I posted earlier this week, I ended things with my BF. At first I was numb and now I am very sad, but feel my decision was the right thing. I think the hardest part of it all is accepting that I made the decision to move to my new town and all the negative things that resulted from that. I left a good paying jobs and colleagues that I loved, left my family, who helped me as a divorced mom of two, my hometown, my friends. I took a job in my new state and was unhappy, so I suppose it was a gift in a way that my position was eliminated earlier this year.
So I went to the hospital yesterday because I have been getting weird pains on my cervix (sorry guys). I'm only 35 weeks along but baby has dropped and is pushing against my cervix. So I guess it wont be as long as we thought it would be! It could be anytime. The doctor suggested a big expensive belly sling, but if I make it untill the 27th then I'm just going to go buy a cheap one from walmart. The pain sucks, but BABY'S COMING SOON!!! 
So this was our weekend without kids. We had a great weekend. We pick up my kids this morning and get laundry started. It seems last time (Wed night)his daughters were here, SD9 decides to leave her dirty clothes on the floor next to her bed. Yes, she has a hamper in her room. Yes, she is a slob. She was told before about leaving pants in the hamper when they are inside out with underwear still attached.
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