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How's it been!!! Haven't been around this joint in awhile. But wanted to check up on any of the good ole crew... Anyone still around?
After my last post, I decided that I would help SO write a response to his facebook friend. It went like this:
Hey 'friend',
So BM and DH have been in divorce fights for like 2 years and its finally coming up to all the hard hitting things!
BM is insane for her demands she is asking and is trying to make DH still pay mortgage for her property to live in rent free for the next 5 years (kids are with him 40% of the time)!! that he has to pay all private school fees and that he pay for all children activities...etc and the list goes on and on! (she isnt willing to pay a cent)
BF is alone on a trip with SD...he hasn't called me since Sunday night. He's texted me, and IM'd me, but I still feel extremely POd. Whether it is true or not, I feel like he doesn't have the time to call me and I am angry and hurt.
Am I being unrealistic/unreasonable? I haven't gotten this angry in quite a while.
I have a 16 year old SD who is a Sophomore in high school. I started noticing no emphasis by the BM for SD to turn in homework, go to class, she is truant and turn in her classwork. This has been happening her 8th, 9th, and now 10th grade years. SD has no disabilities and so smart. I could not for the life of me figure out why BM is not doing anything about it. My two other SD's her two older sisters have graduated high school and are over the age of eighteen, they didn't have any problems.
Wow! I am so happy to finally have a place to vent about my life! I am married with an eleven year old stepdaughter whom we have full custody of and my husband and I have a two year old son. My stepdaughters mother is bipolar and lives in another state. So I am her only "mother". She really is a great child, but sometimes I feel guilty because I don't feel the same for her as I do my son. I know it's normal but it really puts a strain on my relationships with her and my husband.
ok I found this weird and creepy and I have no idea what to make of it.
today I was in my office writing some letters and the SK are playing in the brats room.
they come in and said Guess what Brat just said and I am like what?
they both said that Brat said she wanted "to put a spell on daddy so he wouldn't love step mommy anymore, just me"
is that crazy or what?
and this is coming out of no where she can't possible be nice. today I tried HARD I went into the back yard with her had a small picnic and did absolutely nothing bad to her at all.
The other night I spoke to two of my friends that I hadn't talked to in a very long time. I remember why I stopped talking to them now........after about a year of not talking nothing has changed. I sat on the phone and I listened to them talk my ear off for about a hour each about all of their problems. Not ONCE did either of them ask me how things have been going for me.
It made me stop and look around at my place within most of my relationships. I'm the listener, the fixer. Anyone I know can dump all their hardships on me and I help them to fix the problems.
I have posted a number of times about the totally dysfunctional and unhealthy way of interacting that FH and BM have. Their relationship makes me very sad for FH and feel so much anger towards BM. She was/is psychologically abusive to him, she manipulates him constantly, he does whatever/whenever she asks (though she treats him like sh-- before, during, and after). He bends over backward to appease her and he demonstrates so much fear in the face of her....
I was asked what my title was at work today and I don't really know. LOL I work for a major farm equipment/residential equipment dealership. I order/inventory all the complete goods (everything but parts)for 10 locations. I also am in charge of HR at this location, order office supplies at this location, make all travel arrangements for all 10 stores, all administrative assistant duties at this location, assistant the owner with any sales he makes (do the contracts and all associated paperwork and collect fees).