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Ok, are I and DH the only ones who find this kinda creepy.... BM's man proposed to her (yay!! Maybe she will chill a little once she marries this guy) but... When he proposed to BM he also got on one knee and proposed to SD14 and asked her to be "his daughter" wtf?! SD accepted. Not only did he propose to SD and put a ring on her finger it was a ring that DH gave to BM some 10 years ago for a wedding anniversary. Now that this has happened DH told BM that it was totally inappropriate to ask SD to be BM's mans daughter.
I know a judge probably will not grant this, but just wondering DH's chances ( he thinks it is pretty slim too ). We live about 98 miles away from SD6. We meet at a halfway point with BM EOWE. Its an hour to drive there and an hour back. Just wondering if a judge will grant DH to have every weekend? Or if BM was okay with DH having SD every weekend, if a judge would grant it..? Just wondering what you guys thought thanks!
DH,
I don't want to fight with you. I just want to shed a little light on my side of these perpetual issues.
First of all, I don't like your parenting style. It's obvious that it doesn't work. I have tried it and kids don't take talking to them very seriously. If so, two of five of your kids would not have dropped out of school and would have graduated. Since when is it that they take anything seriously, especially when you don't SHOW action? Try supporting your claim, "Actions speak louder than words."!!!!!!!! But, this is not my problem!
A crummy week ended really well today. TGIF.
How do you end a rotten week?
I am having a wonderfully cold beer with lime and salt ... and some pizza made by a little mom and pop pizzeria down the road.
i just read something that made me wonder....
if all other factors with you and bm are equal, will the judge take care of the needs of bm first or are you equal?
it seems that when we are married to dh and have bio kids, bm gets the front seat where the courts are concerned, but what if we are in the same situation as bm?
After todays little stunt and just the way she has been acting I decided to take some advice from you all and have a little talk with SD. I got lucky that BF hoped in the shower when he got home and left me and SD alone. After some arguing and her torturing me she curled up next to me on the sofa and laid her head on my shoulder. I asked her if I could ask her something and she said yes.
Me: why are you mean to everyone?
her: I'm not mean to everyone.
me: ok well you are very mean to daddy and me and get angry at us for no reason
This is my first blog entry. I will try to keep up with the many issues I deal with every week. The problem of the week is this: Bf wants to keep his house that he and BM lived in with their son. We've talked about this before as he was making his decision to short sale the house...however, it's been months and the potential buyer pulled out. His realtor is quite pushy, wanting him to keep the house. He knows how I feel about him keeping the house...I would not feel comfortable living there, let alone hanging out there if he lived there.
the other morning, dh was in the shower, and ss was taking a bath in our big tub next to the sower while i was doing my hair for work. something was said by me or dh, cant remember, but it was basically that ss looks just like dh. you cant really see bm at all in ss....well dh and my sil look EXACTLY like satan(mil) so im afraid that when dh and i have kids, if its a girl it will be an exact female version of dh, which means my little girl will look like MIL. i dont even know if i would like my own kid if it looked like her. im kidding, but seriously what the heck would i do.
Wednesday morning SS10 hocked a lugey into my hairbrush before I went to use it. Every morning he uses the brush and puts it away, and then I use it. Well the brush wasn't in the drawer, no biggie, I checked the hall closet and it was there half hidden under a wash rag, ok. I look into the brush and there is what I thought was hair gel, so I started cleaning it out with my bare hands (I was in a rush) and it wasn't the consistency of hair gel so I smelled it, IT WAS SS10'S FUNK BREATH.
Wish me luck...as I am headed to Chuckie Cheese to kick SS8s rear at SkeeBall. He has no idea who he is messing with! 
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