Wow! I am so happy to finally have a place to vent about my life! I am married with an eleven year old stepdaughter whom we have full custody of and my husband and I have a two year old son. My stepdaughters mother is bipolar and lives in another state. So I am her only "mother". She really is a great child, but sometimes I feel guilty because I don't feel the same for her as I do my son. I know it's normal but it really puts a strain on my relationships with her and my husband.