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Demon got her way- unbelievable

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Demon (SD15) has been begging to do online schooling for months. Her big thing is, we are on vacation for 2wks, and she "doesn't understand why she can't just try it for that time while she's at her moms". Because she isn't made for online schooling!! She can't even turn assignments in at regular school! All she wants to do is sleep. And she's NOT going to be home with me while I WFH. Crazy has said she can go there during the day but that is a terrible idea- and we don't trust her. She will make excuses about why she can't go there in no time.

So over this kid

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So last I wrote, SD15 aka Demon was refusing to go to school, but Seeing as how she had no other options, She has been going, and has actually been doing fairly well. She is the Manager of the volleyball team, but still seems to have minimal friends, as tends to happen when you act like she does. She has been working a bit and going to therapy, so that's something.

SD is now “refusing” to go to school

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Because heaven forbid we just have a bit of peace! 
 

Last week SD15 told DH she doesn't want to go to  school. We live in a small town- besides an expensive religious school, it's the only option. DH tells her that. He said next year, when she's a Junior, she will have her license and can drive to the next town's school if she really wants to. Sat. Night DH and I were camping and I got woken up at 3:30am by SD texting DH once again (she made the text go through despite him having his phone on DND) asking him to not go to this school. I was not amused. 
 

DH's poor choices and the biggest idiot in all the land (BM, not DH) ;)

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DH told me that he gave SS18 his old expired Driver's license when he dropped SS off at college. Why. WHY? I said Really?? Why would you do that? DH said "Everyone has them". I said yes, but not from their parents. Like Seriously, if I have to explain this to you DH. Whatever. Also, the DL was cracked down the middle, and SS does not look like a 44 year old man. It's like he's actively trying to get him in trouble. Not my problem. I just keep repeating, SS is gone, SS is gone...

1st week with SS at college and the cord is NOT cut

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SS18 will be gone 1 week as of tomorrow, and here's how it's going so far: 

-We have discovered a trove of lies he has told. How he "didn't go to his ex gf's house" the night before he left, immediately after dropping off his current gf, even though the ins app clearly shows her house as the end point. 

SS left for college!! 1 down 1 to go!

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Prior to DH attempting to end his life a few weeks ago,  had a trip planned to CO which was a very much-needed break from skid-related stress, change of scenery, and to see my best friends. I was struggling too honestly and needed to try and get myself in a better headspace. DH talked me into still going and said he was 100% not going to do anything to hurt himself. I did believe him. 
 

An SD and Crazy update- another 180

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In the last episode of "Crazy forced SD14 to come to our house and she went feral", DH had put on his rose-colored glasses and done a 180 and was all "I want to make things work with SD" and had changed his mind about filing for an emergency custody change to give Crazy full custody because I had found an intensive 4hr/day intensive therapy program which would magically undo the aggressive PAS she has been exhibiting. Since then: 

- We are still waiting for SD to have the evaluation, so we're not sure if/when she will be starting this program. 

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