So DH called me yesterday from work, sounding like he had lost the will to live. SD13's school had emailed him asking him to call the principal on his direct line. Apparently SD had another incident at school (last time she was here he got called also), this time her and this boy who she has a love/hate relationship with got into it- she started it, he grabbed her wrist and wouldn't let go, she bent his finger back, he pushed her into a wall...walked away, came back and pushed her into the wall again, hitting her head pretty hard. She reported it.

This is really groundbreaking stuff guys. A little backstory, we know by now that DH refuses to enforce punishments, with SS especially. Well last time skids were here we had them for 3 weeks in a row, which was actual hell, but unbeknownst to me, DH was riding SS16 pretty hard. I had heard snippets, but not the majority of it because I was just minding my business, trying to survive. Anyway, DH told me that for 5 days in a row last time, he yelled at SS for various things- getting zero's on homework, and I don't even know what else.

6 days. DH didn't talk to me for 6 DAYS after getting mad because I challenged what he told SS16 about eating the messiest meal I make in his room because he was sick, when there was no need for him to since he would have the entire downstairs/kitchen to himself. DH got mad. I followed him into the garage to discuss- that was probably my bad. There's no talking to DH once he's upset, but I still try. 
 

We are on day 3 of having skids for 3 weeks and I am over here thinking there's no f'ng way I'm going to make it through 3 wks.