I've been laying pretty low on the posting front because I had a sense that my ex might know about this page - not sure. But, about 6 weeks ago, I noticed he did something strange that caused me to batten down the hatches here, on Facebook, in my cycling app and on reddit.

Camping weekend was fantastic. Got all of my gear out and I know I packed way too much. The weather was SO cool in the mountains. I had packed a battery operated fan - never needed it.

This group of women I camped with is part of a nation-wide hiking organization for women who are curvy and not into hiking far or fast. Not quite slugs or sloths, but women who take their time and no one is left behind.

I've got Mr. Allergic to cats, but perfect for me on paper, asking me to concerts - as a friend.

I've got Mr. Cutie-pie, separated, 9 years younger with 2 minor kids going to dinner with me next week - as a friend.

And to top it all off, tomorrow night I have a "date" with a local college football coach I met a few weeks ago after a bike ride. And I am SURE he's 20 years younger than me. Dafuq?

Today is 4 months since I broke things off. Things are exponentially better.

This weekend, I'm with 4 of my dear friends. We're staying DEEP in N. Central PA and riding the Pine Creek Trail. We rode about 24-25 miles today and 3 of us will ride the remaining 38 miles tomorrow.

I've been here before, but only from the state park that overlooks PA's Grand Canyon. Being down in the canyon on the trail with a view of the river has been nothing less than spectacular.