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BF went to court this past week with his lawyer in tow. BM's lawyer is a real piece of work. He told me I was on crack when I asked a reasonable question. Anywho, neither party could come to a temporary agreement so now each lawyer has to submit a proposal by Wed of this coming week and the judge will decide temporary parenting time and support. BM wants way too much money but it is what the calculator says. She won't compromise on anything. BF wants 50/50 and BM wants sole physical and legal custody.
And he is awesome! He is two inches taller (because he now stands up strait, tall and proud) and has lost ~35lbs. He has been in ZERO trouble so far and his leaders and instructors all speak very highly of him and his performance. His grades are a little better than they were last year but that is a significant accomplishment since he is now in a very rigorous college prep program .
BM tried to keep SS from coming on visitation again this weekend, claiming he was sick with diarrhea and throwing up. Yesterday was BF's birthday, and she had succeeded in keeping SS from coming last weekend when he was supposed to...so BF said, too bad, he's coming anyway. BM says, what about BD? BF says, "She's gonna have to get sick sometime!" We can't just keep them separated because one is sick. They're BOTH our kids. We wouldn't send SS away when he got sick if he lived with us full time! I'm so glad he stood up to her and didn't let her use our daughter as an excuse again.
My FH mother has been diagnoised (sp?) with mouth cancer. Well Im really worried about her, and my F FIL. But I have only been through the cancer trauma once my whole life with my grandfather and sadly he passed 9 years ago with it. Everyone thinks Im the strong one the one with a solid head on my shoulders. But in all honesty its killing me on the inside this woman has been more of a mother to me than anything and I love her dearly.
In the 9 yrs we have been together this is what has happened. I have been physically assaulted, called names, stolen from, lied about and so on. At first H backed me up on all decisions but since we moved to TN that has stopped. He says I should forgive her for everything she has done because she's just a kid. More like the spawn of Satan. This kid is an absolute spoiled monster. She has tried to have me arrested, pushed me down a flight of stairs, pulled a knife on me and disrespected me constantly. One minute H says she's just a kid then the next he says she's an adult.
or should I say H acted like a normal husband-for 2 whole days now. Like the apology I received over the phone yesterday morning.
Then last nite (H is back-is is working to 2 days 30 miles from here). There was no picking at me, critizing me, and he called this morning to thank me and tell me how lucky he is to have me.
So he is back from 15 months of deployment and already the coddle woddling of the "princess" has begun...I kept the ingrateful little snot for the 15 months he was gone and have totally raised her for the past 9 years...Yet, he comes home and wants to undermine me where she is concerned...I don't get it...Not at all...
I have been waiting to get up enough nerve to post my story on here. But today, something good happened and it prompted me to write my first blog. So lets see if I can give my story in a short version. I have been in a Long distance Relationship with my BF for over 3 years now. I live in CA, he lives in CO. I knew he had a son when I met him, but it did not seem to be an issue in the beginning. BF & the BM were never married and never even together as a couple, it was a one night stand.
made my login name it will get worse. Not it will get better. Cause that is exactly how i feel. This is some bullshit I have never been in a relationship with someone that had a kid and dont know if im going to be able to put up with this for the rest of my life. And maybe the Guys that I have dated have thought the same thing who knows. But I feel that when both of you have kids in a relationship you see more... well i do. I see how my son is treated different.... UGGGGGHHHHHHH I just want to scream.
I just found out that I have to work Saturday the 29th which I really dont mind because its SD weekend so i dont mind not being there. But my BF was told by one of my coworkers that I had to work and he said "im not staying with the kids" and the reason why he says this is because the last time he stayed with both of them they got over big time and we got into a big fight because he wants to blame or see that everyone elses kids do wrong but not his daughter.
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