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I feel that my SD thinks that this is a competition between me and her. She does things to her dad that I think sometimes are not appropriate but her dad doesnt stop her right there. lt me give you some examples. For one she lays on his lap but with her head right on top of his crotch. (am I bugging?) She grabbed him from behind one day and his cell was in his lap and she was grabbing it not knowing what it was and saying whats this!!!! We went to my mothers house and we were all sitting on the sofa but she was practically sitting underneath her father. Thats how far up his ass she was.
My boyfriend has been paying child support for the past year in the form of School tuition. Sometimes he does pay late but it is only by a couple of days because we get paid every two weeks and it didnt land on the date. But when he did pay he would pay a late fee along with the payment. he would then pay llunch for the next two weeks and aftercare. Well BM decides that she wants to take him back to court because she wants the money to be directly taken out of his check...
and would totally accept & value your imput. I have not "posted" on this site in quite a while, instead, just browsing and learning from some wonderful (step)parents out there. That being said, here is where I stand.
I read a lot here about BF and BM guilt parenting the skids, but what about us stepmoms and dads? In some ways, I think I may be guilt parenting sd14. More often then not, SD arrives for her weekly visitation, I'll have left her something on her bed. Its usually not anything expensive, a book, a cool pen, a sweater I saw on sale that I thought she'd like, things like that.
Tomorrow my husband and i are supposed to pick up my mil to bring her to a birthday party of one of her friends which i dont mind i love her and she is great towards me.We are also supposed to pick up sd which we will be driving probably a total of 6 hours tomorrow another weekend ruined i have just been so busy and feel worn out.My issue is when we pick up sd everytime we are around family they are always going on about how pretty she is.and how much she is grown.I resent it because my husband has had a reverse vasectomy that didny work and we have been through ivf,icsi fertility treatment
Ok call me bad but I looked on my FH cell phone, seems like the man who hated cell phones and hating TEXTING even more has suddenly become cell phone friendly and texts all the time now. So since he has proven to be less then honest on some occasions I checked out his text messages late last night.
My ss is 16 years old and has no desire to go for his license that will take him a full year to get it before he can drive on his own.We dont want to be driving him to his visitation still when he turns 18.When does the driving skids back and forth for their visits end?We have been doing it all along and was wondering what age you stop doing this?
I'm just so sick of it all, all the baggage that DH brought into our marriage, SS and his problems, Bm and her crazy ways. If I could just go back I would have never gotten myself into this situation.
Last night DH and I had a big blow out and he told me that I never support him or help him. I started listing all the times I've supported him or helped him, including paying for the lawyer in order to get full custody of SS (biggest mistake I ever made) and after my LONG list I ask him to just name 1 time he's done something for me. Do you know what his answer was?
What would be the age that you stop picking up and driving the sk to visitation?We do all the driving to avoid confrentation with bm but it has been 4 years now.
I am so sick of hockey...I really am just sick of it beyond words. They play it 24/7...they dream about it...when they're not playing it they have mini sticks to play on the floor with tiny tiny pucks and nets. Or they're out in the street playing it. Plus all their games and the travel hockey.
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