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My ss is 16 years old and has no desire to go for his license that will take him a full year to get it before he can drive on his own.We dont want to be driving him to his visitation still when he turns 18.When does the driving skids back and forth for their visits end?We have been doing it all along and was wondering what age you stop doing this?
I'm just so sick of it all, all the baggage that DH brought into our marriage, SS and his problems, Bm and her crazy ways. If I could just go back I would have never gotten myself into this situation.
Last night DH and I had a big blow out and he told me that I never support him or help him. I started listing all the times I've supported him or helped him, including paying for the lawyer in order to get full custody of SS (biggest mistake I ever made) and after my LONG list I ask him to just name 1 time he's done something for me. Do you know what his answer was?
What would be the age that you stop picking up and driving the sk to visitation?We do all the driving to avoid confrentation with bm but it has been 4 years now.
I am so sick of hockey...I really am just sick of it beyond words. They play it 24/7...they dream about it...when they're not playing it they have mini sticks to play on the floor with tiny tiny pucks and nets. Or they're out in the street playing it. Plus all their games and the travel hockey.
So BM is crying poor in court and stating she is in finanical distress raising the baby. Well, we found out why! She paid for her new man's bankruptcy with his wife. The wife did not pay a dime. BM paid the whole fee and it is documented in the legal papers. How dumb can she be?? BM basically took $1800 out of her child's mouth to help her boyfriend and his then wife. They have only been divorced less than a month.
God I love public information!
Or something like that. The title sentence is an amalgam of a couple of comments made in recent threads.
I would like to point out that there are a whole heck of a lot more stories about whack job BMs and SMs than BFs and SFs. If volume of issues is any indicator, us males are down right geniuses.
Ok, now that I have taken this one giant step for man, I will crawl back in to my idiot guy hole and keep my head down for a while as I am sure I have now convinced everyone that I am an idiot because I chose to open my big mouth.
I just want to know if anyone else feels this way.
Even though BF and I have been together for about 4 years, I still don’t feel apart of the family.
I have an ex husband who I longer see or talk to, we had no children together so we both went our separate ways.
Sorry....but need to "vent" this out. I love my MIL, I really do, buuuut some times I really want to tell her (insert title of this post). MIL called on Tues. night, DH was not home yet, but came in while I was talking w/ her. We were in the middle of talking about the skids, and she said she wished that DH would try to make contact w/ SS, by calling him on his cell phone. I reminded her that he did call before, a while ago, and never got a call back.
Crayon's blog on Gratuitious visits in preparation for a birthday got me thinking. SD15 hasn't seen or spoken to BF in six months-- since he found out she flunked the ENTIRE (including PE) 9th grade. (No- we don't get copies of grades, BM won't give us password to on-line grades, BM won't let BF go to PT conferences so it was a bit of a shock to learn at the end of the school year that she has flunked not just a few classes, but many over the course of the entire school year. Probably several grades for all we know.)
Is it normal for the SM to be excluded from psychologist meetings with SS? I feel I should be there, but it seems I am the only one who does. DH and BM will be at this week's with SS... should I push the issue or let it go?
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