Hello all!! I am so very glad to have somewhere to come too! People who understand. I have two step sons ( 11 & 13). My husband and I also have a daughter who is 5. Everything was going reallllllly well up until we moved to the same town with BM (note: had to go to the forum for abbreviations :).)

I feel absolutely horrible. My resentment for my SD is really effecting me and my relationship with my DH. I have gotten to the point I am pulling away from him. I don't mean to and don't want to but it is happening. I am going to counseling in a few weeks (earliest appointment I could get). I need help. My son is starting to notice that mommy is always upset and mad. I don't want to feel this way. I don't want to act this way. This is far from my character. My husband is really concerned about me and what is happening to me.

I asked that question because.. I live with my BF he is always visiting his kids at his ex-wife's house they go on outings together like bowling with the kids.. plays.. park..swimming etc.. they talk on the phone and txt thru out the day.. since we have been together he has even taken a vacation with ex wife and kids for a week.They share custody so he has them for a week and she has them for a week etc (not like he only sees them every other wkend). The kids are young but we have a child together as well who will be turning one.

I need to preface this with she normally is not a huge problem, but this week is a pain in the ass, without ever even talking to DH. I am home recovering from Foot Surgery this week. I have had a horrible week. The day after surgery I had to put down my beloved Dog. Not even supposed to be up out of bed and had to take her to the vet. So my emotions were pretty bad.