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I have let things get to me lately and I shouldn't. I have worked hard to be a positive person and have started to fall short of that for a few weeks. My last blog was that I was down and out and over it all. And I guess that day I was, but that was the wrong attitude to have. Even though this site is great for people with the same issues, more or less, there is still alot of negativity. I need positivity in my life, especially when dealing with two BM's that give my DH and I grief.
I have been dealing with my husband's x-wife and her family being invited to EVERY family party on my husband's side. I have been going to these events (birthday parties, graduations, weddings, etc) for nieces and nephews for over 9 years. The last straw was this past June... we attended a nephews wedding and they had a picture display board. On that board was two pictures of the x-wife with my husband's family and not ONE of me or my husband. I decided at that point that unless it had to do directly with my step-children, I would not attend any events EVER.
I got so mad tonight about what FH said tonight about my father's wife's sister that I had to take my anger out on the washing machine and now 6 of my fingers are bandged up. I do call my dad's wife my step-mom but her sister is a different story... She called me a fat-ass in front of my dad at HIS Christmas party that he throws for his employees and clients every year and she told me to go and fetch her a plate of food. I cannot stand the bitch and FH said something "nice" about her and it completely pissed me off!
For the last 4 years, since crazy witch took DH to court for more child support, DH has had to cover his daughter on his insurance policy through work. The additional cost to the insurance is over 80USD a month...The mother already covers her through her work, and it is NOT an additional cost to her...but obviously, she wanted to be a witch and make DH pay the money anyway...(ps.
My DH and I have been married for only 5 mos. I have 3 wonderful kids and he has 2 children of his own. We have been living together for almost a year now, but the jealousy between our two youngest daughters is getting out of control. His is 6 years old and mine is 4. The most recent fight has been one over the SD's birthday party coming up soon. She has told my daughter that she cannot come to her party because she doesn't like her. I know it is childish for me to get involved, but it is hard for me to see my baby get her feelings hurt...
and I want to know what you think.
Her husband's ex had a baby recently, and she wants the baby to call her mom. She wants her DH to have joint custody.
I think she is moving way too fast. The BM is still breastfeeding. I know I wouldn't feel comfortable forcing my skids to call me mom.
What I would love to know is, did the DH cheat on the SM with the BM, or did he date the BM, break it off with her, then date and marry the SM?
I feel like screaming at BM she is such a F*#@ing idiot, has anyone done this!!?? what were the results did it help?, did it hurt? I am pretty sure it would feel goodbut would it do any good!!?? I feel like I really need to confront this woman, but I would like a little input before I try on what I may expect and what is the reaction any of you had when DH found out about a confrontation with BM!!??
help! they are going to be home soon, I don't want them to come home!!how do I get them to move in with their mother without being mean to them!!??
Where do I begin...The ex knew me while they were still married. I didn't realize the error in my ways till it was too late. What's done and said cannot be undone. They were officially divorced last year in November after being separated for almost two years. She moved the kids three hours away from us (legally!) and we drove twelve hours every other weekend and sometimes every weekend (I think it's important to get one on one time with them since they seem to fight for attention when they're all together). Then their father and I relocated to the same city as the kids.
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