I am beginning to wonder and feel that BM resents SD4. Not that BM doesn't love her, but that she has a resentment towards SD. I know she has resentment towards myself and DH, but I think it runs downhill to SD. The little things like not taking SD to the doctor until really sick, waiting until she is hospitalized to say "ah our little SD is in hospital from pneumonia". UGH! Well, that's not a little thing. We told BM to take SD to doctor for over a month and she didn't! Or making SD wear jeans and clothes that are too small? SD's jeans were so tight that they would hardly button.

We received 3 medical bills today from BM2. Ok, we owe half of $5.00 and another half of $5.00. And half of $24.80 for SD4.
No problem....
Thing is on the one bill it states a balance of $100.00 and shows where BM pd the $24.80. Ok. She never stated that the $100.00 was for herself or for SD. Just said here are the bills and that is it. So, we would assume that we reimburse half of the $24.80 and the $100.00. NOPE! Dr. Office said SD's charges were covered by insurance other than the $24.80 and that the $100.00 was the balance due for BM.

From reading posts on here I see that alot of BM's are the same. I understand that some BM's feel that they are ENTITLED to whatever they can get, but good grief why try and break the bank so you can one day get NOTHING!!! It really doesn't make sense to me. If DH is paying support ON TIME EVERY SINGLE MONTH plus covers insurance, why ask for more? If Skids are loved in both homes by both SETS of parents then why in the world would you continue to try and throw a wrench into the situation?????? I am a BM and a SM and just don't get it.

When SD was born, DH had no idea if his or not, had DNA right after birth, SD is his and the story goes on. Had to do Paternity with court to Legitamize SD as his daughter and in that you state the last name factor. BM wanted SD to have her last name, being SD would live with her. DH agreed, which was the wrong decision as we see now. SD is almost 5 and BM is recently married, so her last name is not the same as SD's now. DH asks BM if she would agree to change SD's last name before kindergarten and she said NO.