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Hey StepTalk family. I am on vacation this week and my children and I went to Virginia to visit my mother and brother. My DH and his children stayed behind mainly because DH's mom has cancer and she's not expected to be here much longer. Well, since I've been gone DH doesn't want to keep his kids he drops them off at their relatives house. I knew that it would happen but it just bugs me that DH can't keep his own children unless I'm there. What's his deal.
i am writing this nearly in tears, to me at the moment it seems like my Dh and his family bend over backwards to accomodate BM, they seem to have forgotton the shit she has done to my DH and the money she has cost him, she has taken the kids in the past and got CS through the roof cos he had no access, she has spread rumours about all of us and yet they seem to constantly want to help her.
Their reasoning is "It is for the kids" I say what a load of fucking shit, all they are doing is trying not to upset her.
Do you find yourself attracted to certain types of blogs?
Like for example,
* Angry DRAMA blogs?
* Sad DRAMA blogs?
* Panic DRAMA blogs?
* Happy "shitin glitter blogs?
I find myself scanning the titles of blogs looking for something that interests me.
And when I find nothing there of any interest for me, I feel kinda bummed.
Which makes me remember a thing my life coach had said to me about 5 years ago.
She had asked if I thought I was addicted to drama? Pain misery in my life?
First of all....I was hanging out with some friends on Friday night and didn't get home until midnight. It was wonderful not sitting around the house waiting to see if Uber was going to bring step-demon over on time.
Saturday morning, DH gave me the scoop. He must have put the fear of Dog into UberSkank, cause she had step-demon (sd14) call at 7:02pm on Friday to let him know they were on the highway by our house and would be there in a minute. They showed up at 7:15pm. Drop off is supposed to be 7pm, and 9.5 times out of 10 she runs about an hour or more late.
I have had it with BM, she is turning my SS's into assholes!!! I told her what I thought of her, and how it is gonna be, and if she isn't going to step up and be a real parent to these boys then leave them alone and let me do it!! I am not backing down anymore! I will not have these boys and her decide how I live my life anymore!! She now knows I am not going anywhere, and I am not puuting up with their bull shit anymore!!!!! I am now in the drivers seat of my life and DH is on my side,, and so is BM"s, boyfriend LOL!! This woman has no Idea who she is messing with!!!!!
I'm elevating the final question in my last blog, cause I'm really not sure what to do tonight! If you read through the last one posted this morning, you'll see that my DH got angry at me about something stupid, cause I DARED to question something to do with the Golden Child, also known as SS11.
He's acting today like everything is fine, but I'm not happy about the way he acted last night. I'm not sure if I should make him talk to me about his defensiveness or just let sleeping dogs lie, and chalk it up to a bad night...any advice?
It has been WAY too quiet for our BPD BM. She cancelled visitation this w/end w/SD16. She has not sent nasty emails or demands. She has not called w/sarcastic messages. She cannot text anymore (got rid of text feature due to her abusive texts sent to me and DH).
So my fiance moved away and essentially left me. Even though he claims that it's just for awhile and that we should get married soon and I would move up there as well. Right now we are long distance (again) and its an 8 hr drive between us. At first it didn't bother me so much but the more time away from him that I am and the more I've had to think about things, the more I realize he hasn't taken into account my feelings in all of this and just expected me to move with him.
In response to Giana222's blog; feeling bad for BM.
I'm getting increasingly frustrated with the double standards that seem to apply for BMs & SMs. When we have SS10 for the weekend we make sure there are activities planned that include him, involve him in our normal weekend chores and spend the whole day with him (we have never got a sitter & gone out in the evening for example).
BMs facebook page on Saturday boasted about not getting out of bed until 12.30, and then on Sunday she'd stubbed her toe so was going to have a day on the sofa with chocolate & chick flicks.
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